What do A Virtuous Man Wants in A Virtuous Women....

  Hello, All My Virtuous Sisters.....................

I want to share this video,
By: Truprince

A Virtuous Women Daily Living would like to help repair the broken vessel and true beauty that lies within the Virtuous Woman. May be you've ask yourself  "Am I worthy to be called AVirtuous Woman"? I've made many mistakes and some of the things I've done does not reflect a Women of Virtue. But I stopped by to encourage all my Sisters, there is True Virtue inside!

 As I sit down alone reading my paper I visualize a Women who had been divorce and it really took time for her to fully forgive herself for not being able to save her marriage. But through her pain she went to seek Love to fullfil the void her husband once did, but after many years she was no longer the women he wanted to love as so he promised in his vow to her. She became overweight and suffered depression and her entire facial features had changed. She was still very attractive don't get me wrong but because she had  to cry herself to sleep every night hoping her husband would come home from always working late, she developed dark rings around her beautiful hazel eyes!  One day she stopped her Husband before he went to go have his Morning Shower, She said Honey, "Tell me why you don't Love me anymore, Because from what I see you don't want my touch anymore? And this is how he responded I have always Loved you, this my love you must know, But the fact that you lost your Virtuous Ways, I miss that women in you, she was the love of my life, my best friend, when I needed her arms to hold me instead of nag me you would not let me end, I watched you change over the years, My beautiful wife begin to allow her true beauty to die within! Now instead of going to the spa, you rather go out and eat with your friends, now instead of buying a sexy piece to wear for me, you force me to hurry up when I try to make love to you from within, now you blame me for all your pain, even when I'm at work and several miles away. I look at this women I live with and have prayed earnestly that my Virtuous Queen will come back home to me once again!

Her eyes were filled with tears running down her face! She dropped on her knees and Asked God to bring her back to that place. That place of hope where it all began and that is when he brought her that Virtuous Man.  She admitted to God He was the void, and not husband anymore. Then she realized, Her time was up with this man. Infact she did lose her way, but it didn't mean God did not want to restore her in a Greater Way!

A Short Story!
By: K.Thomas
Sisterhoods Bookclub

Many Virtuous women have infact lost their way, because they lost their mate amd who they once were. But it never to late to enjoy the life God will create in for and with you. I believe if you watch a Man tell you who is the Virtuous Women, and what she should be acting like you will recognize she still live within you! Sister's believe this, there are still men of Virtue, But Who we are will definitely reflect who we shall  pick! If you are Virtuous Women on sunday, and  a freak monday thru saturday you will definitely pick a man who just will go to church with you. But if you are devoted to the Life of Christ you will want a man who offers his spiritual protection over you and you will not be satisfy until he makes you his wife!  "Truprince", reminds us who we are and what we although to be doing in order to be connected with a Virtuous Man. He breaks it down for you to understand where you may have lost you way.....


I hope you enjoy this Video, and May God Bless you for Tuning in Today, Have a Wonderful Day!


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Where did her Virtue Go?

"Tonight is the Night"..............

By: Betty Wright                 

We can never assume when and where it will happen for our Children but It's bound to take place!

This message today may be a little off the Topic because it deals with a story of a Young Girl, in Love and wanting to prove her love and at the sametime losing her Virginity to become A Woman!  Although she was still rather young she realized herself that there are consequences, when we play with sin, she still rather particpate with the process because she wanted to win the heart of her lover. So her story begin, "Tonight is the Night". As a parent we tend to dread this moment because we know it comes with many different consequences and majority of the time, we as the parent will have to deal with the problems that may stem for our own children actions. So we try and push this topic further and further away, hoping because they are young they may not be quite ready. But as she sings her song, she talks about her being a very young girl trying to become a women, because her boyfriend told her he would make her a Woman. 

But what she may have thought before going along with her boyfriends suggestion, A Woman will carefully look at all that she is risking before moving forward and then determine is this the "RIGHT THING" for her and not make it all about him. Perhaps, she did, but Love got the best of her. But what we women tend to miss is Do the Men we Love Deserve what we are trying to give away so fast?

I picked this Song, because Betty Wright goes through her song, the way it normally goes down! She doesn't forget to tell her fears,and concerns in this event, She also touches her fears and reservations of her Mother finding out and what shame and pain her decision would have cost not only herself but her family. And then she acknowledge her Rebellion. Perhaps (Betty) Became (EVE). She actually broke it down to show how young girls are wisked away by this spirit of Love. And if you listen to the song in it's entirety you will hear her own innocence and sacrifice which was given up for her title as she became a woman. Betty Wright  did a superb job in expressing to her audience just what happens when a girl tries to cross over to womanhood.

I believe that we as parents must deal with this same Topic in our Households, we must not hide the truth and facts for the sake of time. Once that young girl is the age of 13, she need to know about her virginity and what will happen if she gives it away.

She needs to be informed about the Highs and Lows of Love, and How we were created to love one another but we must use sound judgment in doing so! We must share the contents of some of our own experiences with our children in order for them to realize their is no reason to rush, because you can only lose your virginity once! And by talking to your daughters, letting them know the many epidemics of diseases, teen pregnancy, and suicide among young girls who have so much peer pressure among themselves while trying to survive and achieve their education. It shall be then, many of our Mother and Daughter rivalry will end.

I will expose the Secret:

The reason why Daughters have a problem with their Mother's is because young girls admire their mothers freedom. And they believe our Freedom is contributed through sex. This is their (Fruit) that we as parents forbid them like with Eve.  But what they don't understand is why we try and tell them that their is "Consequences" to their actions, and since we are older enough to deal with them, your daughter/son may not yet be mature enough to deal with it on their own! But since they admires your freeness, they too want to experience it for themselves way to soon and in come "Rebellion".

If you and your daughter is always arguing it's because sin  is present! Young girls/women only try and lash their tongues when they are trying to be all grown and trying to push their parents because Just Like:  "Satan told Eve, if you eat of this fruit, you will not surely die." (Gen. 3:4)  and so what happened! She did! Eve was what a Young Girl, She right then lost her "Virtue"  And immediately scripture reminds us she and her husband was separated from her (GOD) which was their what? Virginity!  (GOD) was their Father the (Parent). And because of Sin Rebellion was born! She lost her Virginity with Christ first because she chose in the garden to rebell against him her God!  Why? Because she too was trying to be like Him!

Isn't that the same thing our children do with us? Once the virginity is lose in come disrespect,lying,mouthing off,cursing,fighting,and Because God is a God of peace he kicked them out of the garden. When our children is trying new things there will be signs. Because we are Like God, We already know when something is wrong if we are in tune with our children spiritually.  And rebellion always have friends that will follow beside him. We as believer's must search scriptures to see what sign is linked to what sin that is presence!

So what did (GOD) do when he exposed their sin? He immediately kicked them out of the garden, this was the consequences of  their sin! And since God already told them what he wanted them not to do,and they failed to listen He had to still enforce the rules in his own Garden (House). We cannot kick our children out of our homes, because we must allow them to become of age. But we can talk with them and let them know how sin affects everyone in the household. And if they continue to be a partaker of it's folly they shall be cursed by their own sin.

This message is deep, because we need to address this lying spirit before it gets in the hearts of our children, through their friends and other tools that the enemy will use to persuade them to become a partaker of his plan. Remember Satan is bold, and he is crafty. He will use anything to rob our children from their Inheritance in Christ Jesus. And He knows it works! How he knows it works? Becaused he used it on US!  And I will show how.

Everytime you try and urge your daughters or sons, not to have Sexual Intercourse they will say what? MOM, You did it!  You are standing their looking at this beautiful innocent face and the first defense they will always use is:  Well,You did it! Who is that speaking to you? Satan.  Why does satan uses this same spirit? Because he still tries to convince us today that the sin is OK, and he want to shut the mouths of them who can testify to it's consequence so he stares you right in the face and speaks to you through your innocent childs mouth! Because he knows because of that childs innocents you will shut your mouth IMMEDIATELY!!

 But if we train or children about Christ before hand they  will be convicted of their own participation with this form of sin! We can be as transparent as they can handle but we must speak the truth about it's contents and not allow our children to use it against us! Now, See God he put them out, because he already knew that was Satan, and that spirit would only defile the garden. But he still made provision for them because they were still his children. Now you see, it was the Spirit of Satan, God removed from the Garden that was trying to have the mind of God's Children. That my friend is a Parents Love....

I pray that every reader is encouraged to speak into your childs life, remind them of the promises our God has made with us, allow them to understand the truth that is before them. And never be afraid the ears it shall fall on. I also pray your children ears shall be opened to it's truths! God Bless you.......

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LoVe'S MisSion.................................

It's a Day that I remember the Love that surrounds me. It's a Day that I remember who cares the Most for me. It's a Day I find  True LOVE.............

My thoughts among many have driven me to the word "LOVE" and How it is granted to the Heart of a Man through a Virtuous Women. I had begin to watch a Movie on DVD, in which at first I felt it had a boring story plot which was common to other Love Stories.
 
Attention Viewers: I am going to make this Blog Fun!  By challenging all my viewer's to come and Join me, as I give away a Starbucks or Coffee House Gift Card to whomever can tell me the "Name or Title" of this Movie?  Now I shall continue my Blog...........

So As I was saying The beginning of the Story was Boy meets Girl, Boy finds out the Girl he was with was using him, and he discovers it wasn't love for her. So the plot turns around and now Boy meets A Woman and From the moment they laid eyes on each other they found Love....

Why I selected this Story to help me build my blog, because unfortunately we can never as humans say where will LOVE find us! Did your know LOVE has a mission To Find you.......

One of LOVE biggest assignment is to find a place where it shall never end! Believe it or not, LOVE has no end. It can only be contained by two people who allows it's to find rest in them. Many have missed the depth of it's being by only believing LOVE is driven by a emotion and not and assignment. But I will prove that 'True LOVE' has a Mission.

For many Women over the age of 25 now days they find themselves restless,and in fear it will not appear or find it's way home to them, but Love has a Mission and the timing begins when we say we are ready to experience the "TRUTH in LOVE." For many they may have to cross over many mountains to find true love but for others it may be right among the people who live are breathe around you. My question to you are you holding True love in the palm of your hands and don't even know it?

Many times Virtuous Women center their lives around their family and friends, and when they become a certain age group they forget what new Love can bring by looking back at all of their past experience. So they make excuses why they don't need Love and they begin to build fortesses are their lives so that it may not have a chance to find them. And after many years, many become lonely and bitter. Their mind set for themselves and others around them are True Love doesn't exist. Because they forgot to listen to their heart and not only to their painful memories.

But the real truth is they are Afraid of what Love Will DO to them! They are scared that True Love will save them from a life they have designed for themselves, which is lonely and selfish.  Some of them become Cold and Old never allowing True Love to enter in again!

(HINT): "She became confused and lonely, but LOVE had a Mission and it had her name and address
attached to it's Invite." Just think if she wasn't willing she would have missed her one True L ove.

But In the end TRUE LOVE conquers ALL!  Why Because for Most Men being with a Women who is loving, and not afraid to give him her all speaks volumes to his soul. Even when he never let her know he has heard her cry. In fact God have given them a Silent ear which allows them to know when a Good thing is for them! And though many great women have been abused by their behavior does not excuse LOVE's mission. Because we are not the one who offers Love, we are the recipients of his Love!

In the Movie (She) had to cut the relationship off,  because she didn't understand LOVE's mission. She allowed the fears of her failed marriage and the opinions of her friends to stir her away from LOVE's mission, her excuse for not receiving it was placed back on him, and how she felt she would only
rob him from what Love would one day offer him. But little did she know LOVE had chose her.

Now FiVE years later, they run smack face to face in a.................  What seemed to have been many years to them was on a few moments for us the viewer's but what made it all worth the while when you see how LOVE's mission had been restless,but silence wanting to finally find it's place home! Both had the same feeling at the sametime for LOVE's mission. After looking in one another eyes again, LOVE was still calling and craving for it's home.... I cried for them, because he already Knew what she had to find out, for herself in the beginning! It reminded me of LOVE's mission in my life! Today I found LOVE'S mission, I began to see that Love was not just a feeling it was like he said to her "it was about timing" Thank GOD he had her in his heart and never forgot LOVE's call for her.  She found out that you can contain many things but when LOVE rings you Must answer it's CALL! This time she allowed LOVE to complete it's mission!

How many times we as Virtuous Women Fight with LOVE's mission? But yet we say we want to experience TRUE LOVE! We would risk growing old and lonely than enjoy LOVE's Mission..  So many women have draped themselves in beautiful clothes, fake hair and long beautiful nails,Fantasy rides to satisfy a craving for love. They have told themselves, If I look good that's good enough! Perhaps, for some it will be their call, But for them who believe LOVE has a mission to find them,  listen to rhythms of your heart! Allow LOVE's mission to teach you what will be required to hear his call. It's okay to want LOVE presence because GOD is LOVE's Mission. So when he Calls you will you just let the phone ring or will you finally answer HIS Call?

As the Story ends LOVE finds it's HOME.... How funny, I said to myself, LOVE has a home, yet it's released from one to another, though it may become restless when it's not released but once it's found it's home and the mission is completed it's free to grow and blossom as it was created.

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"WhO ShAll GuArd HeR HeArt"

Who shall Guard the Virtuous Women's Heart?

I was looking at different post, AND and The Lord said this to me, Whom shall Guard HER Heart? He led me to the scripture: Phil. 4:7
" And the peace of God, which surpasses (ALL) understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus"

 God is speaking to his daughters, He want them to know that "TROUBLE don't last always! Many are going around trying to give up all that they are, but the only thing God ask of his Children is for them to surrender there Heart unto him.  We can allow ourselves to be fooled because when we are not standing in complete obedience, we will want the blessing more than the prize.

What is God saying? I know your HEART, though you make alot of empty pleads to me, and Some are of Good intent but, Is your Heart right with me? Can you say that you are not still hiding things in your heart against people you don't know? Have you forgiven yourself ? Repent and Forgive them for they Know not what they do...

Sometimes, we are still holding on to past events, and we find ourselves carrying around such baggage in which we try and shut doors that were meant to Love and help us rebuild. We become are so angry,envious and disrespectful to them in which God has sent to us, to grow from. It's one thing to try and use a person to gain a name for yourself, but it's completely another thing when we down right try and hurt someone's else name who has tried to be good to us in the "Jesus" name. I really believe God is saying "Check Your Heart" we can all put on a front in front of the person we are not so fond of or people who do not see the wickness which is hidden in our hearts by the Evil one. But, Have you ever thought, maybe they can see what is in you? People are Notorious for allowing the devil to ponder things in which is not of any value in their heart among their brothers and sisters!

God says this, Proverbs 27:19  " So A Man's heart reveals the man"........................................

What's in your Heart against your Sisters and Brothers? If you can speak one day and laugh and talk, then why the next day you have chosen to no longer speak or look there way? When we proclaim the name of Christ we must accept all that he represent and not just what is fitting for us!

Many people believe they can wear a honor of unforgiveness and be considered righteous, "WRONG" you need to Check your Heart! We do not choose who God will send our way, yet we must not be so anxious to build ungodly relationship with those who can cause us to stumble. But we must remain and live in a life of Forgiveness. Who have you wronged that had to Forgive you? This table is always shifting one to another.

If you are here today and your Heart is troubled by someone you feel has wronged you, Maybe you should ask them why and where did you go wrong! Or send a small message wrapped around forgiveness. If you already have peace than God is with you, And now you can Love them now without Limits! This does mean be foolish, but this means you accept who they are and will no longer allow them to continue to disrupt the peace in your heart!

This message is designed for the Women who Heart is troubled, Who have been in combat with a wronged heart, But let us remember that we are not perfect ourselves and we don't excuse wrong, we grow from it!

May you enjoy your day and Let the peace of God, Guard you heart!!!

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ARE YOU IN DENIAL?

Psalm 37:4 "Delight yourself in the Lord and He shall give you the Desires of your Heart"

Are your desires driven through deception?

Today I want to say if you have been told you was promised a million dollars and it's always been a desire of your own to be wealthy but later you find out it was only a plot for you to pay into so that you will make someone else rich! What would you do?

My guess you would think before you leap. But this spirit of deception is present everywhere! And even though many have a good ideal how they are being deceived but fail to stop this deception for others, May be it's their desire is worth more than the deception. Did you know your name has been added to someone's hit list of deception? Mainly because they can smell your own desperation. Maybe we must learn that you don't have to fall for the madness every single time unless your promise is worthless to you!

Many Believer's will openly say "GOD said", he will grant me the desires of my own heart,but the question is have you DELIGHTED yourself in him? Have you made GOD your Priority for today? Have you utter up any praise or said thank you LOrd at least twice today in other to show your gratefulness for his Love shown unto you!

Are maybe your to busy trying to become your own potter and you want him to become your clay. Perhaps this is where your denial begin! A lot of people can not distinguish between what is hidden and what is not. So with this alone you are never qualified to be the Potter! Yes your education have bought you a name and position but their are area's in your life you can't help yourself and many are mad and disgusted by it!


How and why does God stops Deception:
One of God's Glorious character is to warn us, he urges us in scriptures to do not be anxious for "Anything" because most of the time as a Human, We all See what we want to see and leave what is not any interest to us at the door. Next, God will not allow you to pursue the promise, but the wisdom to the promise. Have you ever heard God say to you "DON"T DO THAT" when you could have slaughtered your enemies? He will always try and keep your physical hands from trying to become the POTTER he only wants you to be the HIS Clay! A Potter always protect his fragile surfaces, because this is where HIS best definition begins. Though the situation may begin all messed up doesn't mean necessarily the master piece cannot be revamped into it's intended purpose! God always begin with rough end. He sculptures the lives of humans who lives was broken....

        "Perhaps your life is broken and you are in need of a Potter"  His name is "JESUS"......


God's Purpose:
In our Scripture God's warn the believer that even though they sing songs of joy, love to him and strive to walk upright before him, they to shall be sheep waiting to be slaughtered if they are not prepared by his word. Because he knows what you do not know, He see's what you don't see. And he tells you openly whom your attacks will be centered by your adversary Satan! He then encourages the believer to get knowledgeable of his adversary as he is with you, learn his attributes and watch his ways! For if you look long enough you will find his plot can two be destroyed. But you have to see with your spiritual eyes! If you have been deceived lately maybe you better order some spiritual lens,immediately. Sorry to just say it for what it is but you need HELP! You need a Savior who cannot only heal you, but can protect your fragile edges as the Potter can certain do.  For God Specialize in showing us the truth, and if we can not receive it, he will offer it in many ways until you can want no more. But many of us, God uses our deception to shape our Rough Edges.

God will Protect your Rough Edges:
People have many rough edges and prejudices which delays many promises! What are the rough edges? Your perception of what is done to you and what is for you. Many are driven away by their own lustful desires when a person is being equally nice to them, they immediately think this person wants them. Sad but it's the truth. Many women have a poor perception of themselves. Many have been abused by what they felt was good and later found it was not good in it for them. Didn't your MOMMA ever tell you everything that Glitter isn't necessarily gold, some are just gold-plated!

I have notice many Believer's live in total denial, Though the word of God tries to correct our thinking, Many of are still driven by the desire to be or become. It's nothing wrong with becoming a great person with a great name people respect, but when we are in denial in how we are being perceived by others that is where denial begins! Remember less than half people you know will ever see you the way you,really want them too.

Solution:
We should never try and walk in another's footsteps! For the shoes you already wear need to be laced up from time to time, we all lose our steps and sometimes fall from our place, but I have learned that the steps I have been given to walk were designed for me. So I settled this longtime ago, I will not try and be someone's else best masterpiece, I have made it my mission to only become the best I can be. If we as women begin to find a happy place in where we are, we can see the provisions in which God has made for us to enjoy! We don't always have to wear the same hats as our sisters to enjoy the same benefits.

If you are in denial ask God to give you a clear perception to what you are trying to do or become. Ask him to guide your every footstep as his increase your space. Stop always asking for the solutions of others whom may not understand where it is your headed. If we learn to allow God to order our footsteps he will bring those who we need into our pathways.

You are NOBODY'S FOOL... For many Women desires have been warped by their own decisions... It is time we begin to stop allowing people to dictate our self-worth and begin to make ourselves a priority to the equation as we begin to seek love,friendships,courtships,business deals,ministries and spiritual positions. God's plan was for us to be informed than misinformed. Forgive those who have tried to be a hinderous unto you and move forward so you may have properly time to gain your promise which was designed for you!

I hope this message encourage those who have been misleaded and have been in a state of denial. For it is the hand of the evil one to deceive Gods people, But the hands of GOD brings correction.  God Bless each and everyone of you..

             "Let not your Heart be troubled because your Father in heaven knows what you have need for"




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