What do A Virtuous Man Wants in A Virtuous Women....

  Hello, All My Virtuous Sisters.....................

I want to share this video,
By: Truprince

A Virtuous Women Daily Living would like to help repair the broken vessel and true beauty that lies within the Virtuous Woman. May be you've ask yourself  "Am I worthy to be called AVirtuous Woman"? I've made many mistakes and some of the things I've done does not reflect a Women of Virtue. But I stopped by to encourage all my Sisters, there is True Virtue inside!

 As I sit down alone reading my paper I visualize a Women who had been divorce and it really took time for her to fully forgive herself for not being able to save her marriage. But through her pain she went to seek Love to fullfil the void her husband once did, but after many years she was no longer the women he wanted to love as so he promised in his vow to her. She became overweight and suffered depression and her entire facial features had changed. She was still very attractive don't get me wrong but because she had  to cry herself to sleep every night hoping her husband would come home from always working late, she developed dark rings around her beautiful hazel eyes!  One day she stopped her Husband before he went to go have his Morning Shower, She said Honey, "Tell me why you don't Love me anymore, Because from what I see you don't want my touch anymore? And this is how he responded I have always Loved you, this my love you must know, But the fact that you lost your Virtuous Ways, I miss that women in you, she was the love of my life, my best friend, when I needed her arms to hold me instead of nag me you would not let me end, I watched you change over the years, My beautiful wife begin to allow her true beauty to die within! Now instead of going to the spa, you rather go out and eat with your friends, now instead of buying a sexy piece to wear for me, you force me to hurry up when I try to make love to you from within, now you blame me for all your pain, even when I'm at work and several miles away. I look at this women I live with and have prayed earnestly that my Virtuous Queen will come back home to me once again!

Her eyes were filled with tears running down her face! She dropped on her knees and Asked God to bring her back to that place. That place of hope where it all began and that is when he brought her that Virtuous Man.  She admitted to God He was the void, and not husband anymore. Then she realized, Her time was up with this man. Infact she did lose her way, but it didn't mean God did not want to restore her in a Greater Way!

A Short Story!
By: K.Thomas
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Many Virtuous women have infact lost their way, because they lost their mate amd who they once were. But it never to late to enjoy the life God will create in for and with you. I believe if you watch a Man tell you who is the Virtuous Women, and what she should be acting like you will recognize she still live within you! Sister's believe this, there are still men of Virtue, But Who we are will definitely reflect who we shall  pick! If you are Virtuous Women on sunday, and  a freak monday thru saturday you will definitely pick a man who just will go to church with you. But if you are devoted to the Life of Christ you will want a man who offers his spiritual protection over you and you will not be satisfy until he makes you his wife!  "Truprince", reminds us who we are and what we although to be doing in order to be connected with a Virtuous Man. He breaks it down for you to understand where you may have lost you way.....


I hope you enjoy this Video, and May God Bless you for Tuning in Today, Have a Wonderful Day!


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WhEn A MaN LOveS A WoMaN.........

Hello Everyone, It's Been awhile, But I am Back!

       WHen A MaN LoVes A WoMan!!

Over the Mother's Day Weekend as I sat in the Chair to have my Pedicure and Manicure done, I heard my Mancurist play Micheal Bolton Track over and over again!  I began to sing this song after I left.
                                     "When A Man Loves A Woman"


But what was quite interesting I've always loved this Song, The very first time  I seen  Micheal Bolton performed this song on OPRAH WINFREY show...... Yes, it's been along time ago. Honey, this man can SING!!!

 This song is why I blog today!

When a Man Loves a Women, She can't do anything wrong,  Wow.......

Many women are always chatting about a man they love, than a man that really loves them! We as women will sit around in packs discussing all the things our mates have done wrong but will rarely share the things he's done for the sake of LOVE.

It's hard for women to talk about Love when they are so busy trying to understand if the man their involved with really likes them!

My daughter and I was talking about her friend, which she's grown fond feelings for! But she says,, Mom I just can't say he feels the same for me! I begin to symphatize with her and THen she asked the Big Question!  HOW DO A WOMEN KNOW WHEN A MAN LOVES HER?

I Think my best and most truthful answer was this:  "When she can see "She's" his priority even if he have to place her needs and wants before his own".  He only want her to be "HAPPY" because if she's happy he knows he will be too!

Then she said, Well How will she know if she has the right man?

I told her, Okay Let's talk for a moment!  When I got straight down to it, this was my words, I believe when a woman see's her man she will know it! She and He will feel and exchange even if they don't  know each other well. As they stand or sit around one another, there is an innocent attraction from both people. Now as the attraction grows it will cause both parties to want to get to know one another better!

And Once they are talking and trying to learn about one another, they will begin to see if this person is good for them! Now if the Women has prayed earnestly for a Husband God will speak to her spirit about him and she will begin to see moreover his life and what is his "Desires" and her spirit will be attentive to his spirit because she no longer will feel just a physical attraction, she will have spiritual attraction which will require her to see his faults,mistakes, and failure from a spiritual eye than a natural eye.

She will not defend him, or rescue him because he is not a stray dog! But she'll see where she can see herself fit into his life without trying to fight with him to become apart of his world. And she will cause him to love her from his soul and not only from the beats of his own heart! If a man Loves a Woman, Micheal Bolton is right, He will not stand by and let his best friend talk against her, because if you talk about her, she is now apart of who he is and he will not stand for that anymore!

Though his Love is deep for her, and she may take him through many hoops, but he knows that when he's around her, or lying right under her there's no better place for "HIM" he rather be.

Now, Women stop trying to make a man Love you! You are worth more than Rubies really if you are a Virtuous Woman! It's sound simple, but it really is like this:  "He either Love you, or He doesn't" either way you still WIN in the end! If he does, then you have what it take in his eyes to make him feel secure. And if he doesn't, it's better to end it than force yourself on someone, who will only disrespect you because you don't make him feel the way he knows real love feels. If you let him go you only Open the Door for someone else who will show you how you should be treated and Loved.

I cannot offer advise because everyone situation is unique! But I suggest you be careful to Whom you trust with your LOVE because When a Man Loves a Woman, SHE must Love Him Back for the Love to Last!

Enjoy the Video and have a Very Blessed Day!


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So YoU ThINk YoUr ReAdY fOr DaTinG?

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Does  C--O--U--R--T--S--H--I--P  exist anymore?

There is (9) Principles you need to know to survive Dating/Courtship!

Women are notorious for dating less than equal to who they are, and when they try and do things in their own way as being human we all have found that we can do more harm in some cases than good really by  trying to incorporate our own techniques which in very early stages of courtship can crumble the finish of a perfectly great connection.

Most women operate in a lot of fear that the man they are dating or Courting is going to hurt them, instead of helping them to become the Women who God intended for them to be. So they wear a Iron Guard, which I agree you cannot give yourself over fully to a person to soon. But it is a part before marriage where you can physically communicate and go out publicly before any hanky panky and just spend time together with out making it so personal by fun. This is the best part the getting "to know you" process.

This Blog is to help Women who are Clueless to Courtship! This means you do not know what is Good or what is Bad for you! If you are frustrated and without answers on how to date a man in a world that doesn't value purity stay tune you may be reminded why you should use all of the principles to determine if you are courting or dating the right person.

A Virtuous Women have already pondered many ideals and thoughts of her one true love, but just because you may know what you want you must begin to operate smarter and stop settling for what you can get. And stop making excuses for yourself. It's very personal when deciding to spend the rest of your life with some you will have to trust with everything!

Some of  you may be Seasoned, but it doesn't mean you know everything there is to dating! If you have a Good Man, continue to be the voice which stems hope in other Virtuous women because many have begin to believe they may not ever meet their one true love and have fallen away from the promise.

  " Courtship"  this mean it's the time before engagement and marriage. This time is set aside for a Man and a Woman to get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement. Courtship is the traditional name for "Dating". Now, for many who are paying attention and is not marry but is dating someone, this is all your relationship is "Dating". Even though you are serious, and have taken it to another level this is where you are, and trust me if you don't think so try and ask your partner what are you two, and he will say, dating, or nowdays your in a committed relationship!

          Listen Up! There is No such thing as a Committed Relationship, when there is No Agreement!!!

You are Marry or Dating and everything in between is just away to make one feel secure. So enough of

that because many women are having a hard time with this, and many are not sure how "Courtship" works and when to draw the line while getting to know someone.

There is NINE Principles you should want to see before taking your relationship to the alter.

1. C:  (Christ) Make sure he has Christ in his Life and it's visible and if it's a requirement for him to be with a daughter of Christ. If he will date a women without stability in who she serve he may not be as ready as he say so. A man who is confident in his Savior will want to date a person who feel the same way.

2. O:   (Obedience) is key, If you are dating or courting someone who you like, but you do not see Christ in him let him go! Not next week a month later do it  Asap. You cannot afford to allow the friendship to blossom and then secretly tricking yourself to seeing something which was never there in the beginning.

3. U:   (Union) a union is very important! you both have to feel connected at the sametime. So many relationship or marriage suffers because both parties didn't want the same thing at the same time. Timing is everything with God and if a person doesn't share the same interest why are you pressing forward for marriage. For marriage is built on a union with one another.

4. R:   (Relationship) If you and him have been dating for over a year and he has not asked for a relationship something is not clicking with you and him. With Christ, he want to be in a relationship, for he do not date us on and on and on, He get us to a place where we can finally place our trust in him. If you are just dating someone when do you finally have a chance to take what you have learned and put it to great practice. No one should be led on, either you are the right one or not.

5. T:  (Truthfulness)  If you are dating a person who believes in lying he will lie to you! I rather have someone who can tell me the truth even if it hurts my feels than one who will lie because aleast I can make a clear decision in continuing or ending our courtship! If you are dating a person who can't tell the truth you are only setting yourself up for many disappointment in the future.

6. S:  (Sacrifice)  What will two people sacrifice to be in love?  If you are dating or courting one another their must come a time that both people must be willing to sacrifice his time,energy and spirit to one person. you do not need a person who cannot be faithful to you and only you! If he is the right person he will want to make your relationship serious and move the title up to Marriage because you are his future.

7. H:  (Holy)  When you are with the right person, He will want you to remain holy and untouched from others and only by him shall you feel his touch. But mainly you should be Holy before the Lord so that he can be in your presence. For if you are living right before him, He can direct your hearts in the way you should go. God is a Holy God, and He doesn't defile your temple, for he grants life to the dead, and rebuilds the hearts and cleanses the soul from all sin. A Godly man will not want to defile your temple.

8. I:  (Intimacy)  God created intimacy, for he knew that two people who are trying to build a strong union must develop a time where both can share with one another. Intimacy is not only a physical exchange, it's a time for silence and a time to bond and come more connected because you are now as one with one another. Make sure you are not allowing intimacy to control a courtship before it's timing!

9. P:  (Patience) Patience is a Virtue! It's very important that we allow Time to mend all and to reveal all. Many women are so busy trying to lack that husband instead of standing back to see if he meets her needs. Can he care for your children without you having to pressure him, does he want children with you, can he cook, clean,work a job and pay rent or a mortage. Is he a God fearing man who enjoys church as much as you do. Can he save his paycheck to show you he will not spend your inheritance or he will not ponder through money because he lack self control. You need to see the person for who they are then who you wish for them to be.

 

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If  you allow Patience to have her good work while dating or courtship you in the end will not lack anything! For some will find just what they was looking for, and for other they will be set  free again to find what they have longed for. It's a process, we learn who we are and get to see if the person we are currenting dating or courting can measure up to what we want them to be. You do not have to walk away being all broken if you do not give too much of yourself to soon. If a person cannot wait and allow the process to be the establishing link you may want to let them past by you, because Marriage is not a union which should be entered into lightly! May all who read this Blog begin to enjoy a Wonderful Courtship before Marriage when the time is right and remember this is where you shall spot your one true love in Courtship! 

I hope you enjoyed my Blog, and I welcome your comments and post, Truly your words are making a difference. I hope to hear from you soon. Have a Beautiful Day!!

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WhO iS BroWn SugAr.........

                                                              Who is Brown Sugar?

Hello Everyone, I just want to share! For Her Skin Tone tells a Deeper Story than what you Think!

Though her skin color is made of many different shades, you are still  "Brown Sugar"..........For many decades our world tend to forget Women of Color have Ruled it all! She was the First of her kind, though her complexion was darker than some she was the one who paved the way for others...

Look below and see how "Powerful  "BROWN SUGAR" really was and Is still today.........

Her Duties:

She was the First Woman to hold a Job:   Brown Sugar was the first women to hold down a regular Job.Although she was place into the fields because of her skin tone, she held the title for women who had to work outside of her own home. And was paid very little wages for the work she did!

She was the First Cook:  Brown Sugar had some "Mad" skills on how to prepare different foods we still enjoy! When you chew on Fried Chicken,Collard Greens,Rice with gravy know this she was up early in the mornings slaving over a Oven trying to prepare"Supper" for a family which was not her own. Her  food was impeccable, and She begin to notice she had been given Ingredients in which God gave her to become a Brilliant Business women with a Niche for Good Old Soul Food Eateries. For her Brown skin  paved her way and helped others as well.
 
She was the First Housekeeper:  Brown Sugar knows how to clean a house. She was known to be the  Servant, Slave or Help. She was told that she must scrub the floors, walls, dishes, countertops and wash all the linen and clothes several times a day. She was the first women to master her skill and take care of a big  Fantasy Home, and she was left in charge to train other house helpers and was given full reign on how to organize her duties day after day.

She was the First Baby Sitter:  Brown Sugar was told to nurse,bathe, watch and teach the children while the Mother was free to shop and tend to her husband so called needs. Brown Sugar became the first Women who Mothered Children in which she did not conceive and whom was not the same color of her Skin. She became the first caregiver.

She was the First Hairstylist:  Brown Sugar had some "Mad" skills! She's trained herself to wear a fro or straighten her sheep textured hair. Many women became jealous of Her true beauty she possess and is still to this day. For she was the one who invented the straightening of the hair through the Stove in order to get her hair to look beautiful like other ethnicity. Her skills range from Braiding to Weaving and everything in between. And many cultures have adapted to her teachings!
   
 She Is the First Woman of Faith:  Brown Sugar talents have always shined higher than any North,South or Eastern star. She created Prayer and Worship. Her daily routine was to pray and sing old hymns as she hung clothes on the lines, and as she rocked the babies to sleep while their mothers took a nap. She always was and is the Greatest Prayer warrior of her kind.


Though she may have been the first women who told a man NO, Stop or  I Can't, does not make her an enemies. Why do other Culture men hate her because she is not easily convinced. She has learned how to become a VirtuousWomen by the barren tone color of her skin. Though she may be different from other women doesn't mean she is not special as well. She may have an attitude and a different types of styling principles but it doesn't justify she's not equal to other women and race. Her Lips may be fuller and she may have a Curvaceous Shape but she is Still "Brown Sugar". Not one women should have ever been ridiculed because of her race. For it's God's choice that he made a shade deeper than others,not darker because we all well go back to the same dirt in which we were made. Next time you see her recognize, she's not just a Women of Color but she God's First Women of many shades and colors. She is the one who have suffered and reigned again and again! She Is a Nubian Queen from many tribes with many gifts and talents. For she shall be recognized as GOD's First Women of grace and her name is still "Brown Sugar"......

 If you don't know, you better ask someone, She's Powerful and Beautiful and Her Name is "Brown Sugar"  Because she have placed her Faith not in things but in values. Hopefully next time you look at "Brown Sugar" you witness the Queen from within!

  When we learn to open our Eyes Up, We can spot the Beauty in All. I hope you enjoyed my blog!
  I have been waiting to sharing this piece with you..........


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LoVe'S MisSion.................................

It's a Day that I remember the Love that surrounds me. It's a Day that I remember who cares the Most for me. It's a Day I find  True LOVE.............

My thoughts among many have driven me to the word "LOVE" and How it is granted to the Heart of a Man through a Virtuous Women. I had begin to watch a Movie on DVD, in which at first I felt it had a boring story plot which was common to other Love Stories.
 
Attention Viewers: I am going to make this Blog Fun!  By challenging all my viewer's to come and Join me, as I give away a Starbucks or Coffee House Gift Card to whomever can tell me the "Name or Title" of this Movie?  Now I shall continue my Blog...........

So As I was saying The beginning of the Story was Boy meets Girl, Boy finds out the Girl he was with was using him, and he discovers it wasn't love for her. So the plot turns around and now Boy meets A Woman and From the moment they laid eyes on each other they found Love....

Why I selected this Story to help me build my blog, because unfortunately we can never as humans say where will LOVE find us! Did your know LOVE has a mission To Find you.......

One of LOVE biggest assignment is to find a place where it shall never end! Believe it or not, LOVE has no end. It can only be contained by two people who allows it's to find rest in them. Many have missed the depth of it's being by only believing LOVE is driven by a emotion and not and assignment. But I will prove that 'True LOVE' has a Mission.

For many Women over the age of 25 now days they find themselves restless,and in fear it will not appear or find it's way home to them, but Love has a Mission and the timing begins when we say we are ready to experience the "TRUTH in LOVE." For many they may have to cross over many mountains to find true love but for others it may be right among the people who live are breathe around you. My question to you are you holding True love in the palm of your hands and don't even know it?

Many times Virtuous Women center their lives around their family and friends, and when they become a certain age group they forget what new Love can bring by looking back at all of their past experience. So they make excuses why they don't need Love and they begin to build fortesses are their lives so that it may not have a chance to find them. And after many years, many become lonely and bitter. Their mind set for themselves and others around them are True Love doesn't exist. Because they forgot to listen to their heart and not only to their painful memories.

But the real truth is they are Afraid of what Love Will DO to them! They are scared that True Love will save them from a life they have designed for themselves, which is lonely and selfish.  Some of them become Cold and Old never allowing True Love to enter in again!

(HINT): "She became confused and lonely, but LOVE had a Mission and it had her name and address
attached to it's Invite." Just think if she wasn't willing she would have missed her one True L ove.

But In the end TRUE LOVE conquers ALL!  Why Because for Most Men being with a Women who is loving, and not afraid to give him her all speaks volumes to his soul. Even when he never let her know he has heard her cry. In fact God have given them a Silent ear which allows them to know when a Good thing is for them! And though many great women have been abused by their behavior does not excuse LOVE's mission. Because we are not the one who offers Love, we are the recipients of his Love!

In the Movie (She) had to cut the relationship off,  because she didn't understand LOVE's mission. She allowed the fears of her failed marriage and the opinions of her friends to stir her away from LOVE's mission, her excuse for not receiving it was placed back on him, and how she felt she would only
rob him from what Love would one day offer him. But little did she know LOVE had chose her.

Now FiVE years later, they run smack face to face in a.................  What seemed to have been many years to them was on a few moments for us the viewer's but what made it all worth the while when you see how LOVE's mission had been restless,but silence wanting to finally find it's place home! Both had the same feeling at the sametime for LOVE's mission. After looking in one another eyes again, LOVE was still calling and craving for it's home.... I cried for them, because he already Knew what she had to find out, for herself in the beginning! It reminded me of LOVE's mission in my life! Today I found LOVE'S mission, I began to see that Love was not just a feeling it was like he said to her "it was about timing" Thank GOD he had her in his heart and never forgot LOVE's call for her.  She found out that you can contain many things but when LOVE rings you Must answer it's CALL! This time she allowed LOVE to complete it's mission!

How many times we as Virtuous Women Fight with LOVE's mission? But yet we say we want to experience TRUE LOVE! We would risk growing old and lonely than enjoy LOVE's Mission..  So many women have draped themselves in beautiful clothes, fake hair and long beautiful nails,Fantasy rides to satisfy a craving for love. They have told themselves, If I look good that's good enough! Perhaps, for some it will be their call, But for them who believe LOVE has a mission to find them,  listen to rhythms of your heart! Allow LOVE's mission to teach you what will be required to hear his call. It's okay to want LOVE presence because GOD is LOVE's Mission. So when he Calls you will you just let the phone ring or will you finally answer HIS Call?

As the Story ends LOVE finds it's HOME.... How funny, I said to myself, LOVE has a home, yet it's released from one to another, though it may become restless when it's not released but once it's found it's home and the mission is completed it's free to grow and blossom as it was created.

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"WhO ShAll GuArd HeR HeArt"

Who shall Guard the Virtuous Women's Heart?

I was looking at different post, AND and The Lord said this to me, Whom shall Guard HER Heart? He led me to the scripture: Phil. 4:7
" And the peace of God, which surpasses (ALL) understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus"

 God is speaking to his daughters, He want them to know that "TROUBLE don't last always! Many are going around trying to give up all that they are, but the only thing God ask of his Children is for them to surrender there Heart unto him.  We can allow ourselves to be fooled because when we are not standing in complete obedience, we will want the blessing more than the prize.

What is God saying? I know your HEART, though you make alot of empty pleads to me, and Some are of Good intent but, Is your Heart right with me? Can you say that you are not still hiding things in your heart against people you don't know? Have you forgiven yourself ? Repent and Forgive them for they Know not what they do...

Sometimes, we are still holding on to past events, and we find ourselves carrying around such baggage in which we try and shut doors that were meant to Love and help us rebuild. We become are so angry,envious and disrespectful to them in which God has sent to us, to grow from. It's one thing to try and use a person to gain a name for yourself, but it's completely another thing when we down right try and hurt someone's else name who has tried to be good to us in the "Jesus" name. I really believe God is saying "Check Your Heart" we can all put on a front in front of the person we are not so fond of or people who do not see the wickness which is hidden in our hearts by the Evil one. But, Have you ever thought, maybe they can see what is in you? People are Notorious for allowing the devil to ponder things in which is not of any value in their heart among their brothers and sisters!

God says this, Proverbs 27:19  " So A Man's heart reveals the man"........................................

What's in your Heart against your Sisters and Brothers? If you can speak one day and laugh and talk, then why the next day you have chosen to no longer speak or look there way? When we proclaim the name of Christ we must accept all that he represent and not just what is fitting for us!

Many people believe they can wear a honor of unforgiveness and be considered righteous, "WRONG" you need to Check your Heart! We do not choose who God will send our way, yet we must not be so anxious to build ungodly relationship with those who can cause us to stumble. But we must remain and live in a life of Forgiveness. Who have you wronged that had to Forgive you? This table is always shifting one to another.

If you are here today and your Heart is troubled by someone you feel has wronged you, Maybe you should ask them why and where did you go wrong! Or send a small message wrapped around forgiveness. If you already have peace than God is with you, And now you can Love them now without Limits! This does mean be foolish, but this means you accept who they are and will no longer allow them to continue to disrupt the peace in your heart!

This message is designed for the Women who Heart is troubled, Who have been in combat with a wronged heart, But let us remember that we are not perfect ourselves and we don't excuse wrong, we grow from it!

May you enjoy your day and Let the peace of God, Guard you heart!!!

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ARE YOU IN DENIAL?

Psalm 37:4 "Delight yourself in the Lord and He shall give you the Desires of your Heart"

Are your desires driven through deception?

Today I want to say if you have been told you was promised a million dollars and it's always been a desire of your own to be wealthy but later you find out it was only a plot for you to pay into so that you will make someone else rich! What would you do?

My guess you would think before you leap. But this spirit of deception is present everywhere! And even though many have a good ideal how they are being deceived but fail to stop this deception for others, May be it's their desire is worth more than the deception. Did you know your name has been added to someone's hit list of deception? Mainly because they can smell your own desperation. Maybe we must learn that you don't have to fall for the madness every single time unless your promise is worthless to you!

Many Believer's will openly say "GOD said", he will grant me the desires of my own heart,but the question is have you DELIGHTED yourself in him? Have you made GOD your Priority for today? Have you utter up any praise or said thank you LOrd at least twice today in other to show your gratefulness for his Love shown unto you!

Are maybe your to busy trying to become your own potter and you want him to become your clay. Perhaps this is where your denial begin! A lot of people can not distinguish between what is hidden and what is not. So with this alone you are never qualified to be the Potter! Yes your education have bought you a name and position but their are area's in your life you can't help yourself and many are mad and disgusted by it!


How and why does God stops Deception:
One of God's Glorious character is to warn us, he urges us in scriptures to do not be anxious for "Anything" because most of the time as a Human, We all See what we want to see and leave what is not any interest to us at the door. Next, God will not allow you to pursue the promise, but the wisdom to the promise. Have you ever heard God say to you "DON"T DO THAT" when you could have slaughtered your enemies? He will always try and keep your physical hands from trying to become the POTTER he only wants you to be the HIS Clay! A Potter always protect his fragile surfaces, because this is where HIS best definition begins. Though the situation may begin all messed up doesn't mean necessarily the master piece cannot be revamped into it's intended purpose! God always begin with rough end. He sculptures the lives of humans who lives was broken....

        "Perhaps your life is broken and you are in need of a Potter"  His name is "JESUS"......


God's Purpose:
In our Scripture God's warn the believer that even though they sing songs of joy, love to him and strive to walk upright before him, they to shall be sheep waiting to be slaughtered if they are not prepared by his word. Because he knows what you do not know, He see's what you don't see. And he tells you openly whom your attacks will be centered by your adversary Satan! He then encourages the believer to get knowledgeable of his adversary as he is with you, learn his attributes and watch his ways! For if you look long enough you will find his plot can two be destroyed. But you have to see with your spiritual eyes! If you have been deceived lately maybe you better order some spiritual lens,immediately. Sorry to just say it for what it is but you need HELP! You need a Savior who cannot only heal you, but can protect your fragile edges as the Potter can certain do.  For God Specialize in showing us the truth, and if we can not receive it, he will offer it in many ways until you can want no more. But many of us, God uses our deception to shape our Rough Edges.

God will Protect your Rough Edges:
People have many rough edges and prejudices which delays many promises! What are the rough edges? Your perception of what is done to you and what is for you. Many are driven away by their own lustful desires when a person is being equally nice to them, they immediately think this person wants them. Sad but it's the truth. Many women have a poor perception of themselves. Many have been abused by what they felt was good and later found it was not good in it for them. Didn't your MOMMA ever tell you everything that Glitter isn't necessarily gold, some are just gold-plated!

I have notice many Believer's live in total denial, Though the word of God tries to correct our thinking, Many of are still driven by the desire to be or become. It's nothing wrong with becoming a great person with a great name people respect, but when we are in denial in how we are being perceived by others that is where denial begins! Remember less than half people you know will ever see you the way you,really want them too.

Solution:
We should never try and walk in another's footsteps! For the shoes you already wear need to be laced up from time to time, we all lose our steps and sometimes fall from our place, but I have learned that the steps I have been given to walk were designed for me. So I settled this longtime ago, I will not try and be someone's else best masterpiece, I have made it my mission to only become the best I can be. If we as women begin to find a happy place in where we are, we can see the provisions in which God has made for us to enjoy! We don't always have to wear the same hats as our sisters to enjoy the same benefits.

If you are in denial ask God to give you a clear perception to what you are trying to do or become. Ask him to guide your every footstep as his increase your space. Stop always asking for the solutions of others whom may not understand where it is your headed. If we learn to allow God to order our footsteps he will bring those who we need into our pathways.

You are NOBODY'S FOOL... For many Women desires have been warped by their own decisions... It is time we begin to stop allowing people to dictate our self-worth and begin to make ourselves a priority to the equation as we begin to seek love,friendships,courtships,business deals,ministries and spiritual positions. God's plan was for us to be informed than misinformed. Forgive those who have tried to be a hinderous unto you and move forward so you may have properly time to gain your promise which was designed for you!

I hope this message encourage those who have been misleaded and have been in a state of denial. For it is the hand of the evil one to deceive Gods people, But the hands of GOD brings correction.  God Bless each and everyone of you..

             "Let not your Heart be troubled because your Father in heaven knows what you have need for"




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ArE yOu ReAdY tO BeCome A wIFe?

Are you ready to become A Wife?

 Does the Vision of Marriage have you in bondage with the reality of Who you shall be............

To many women want the fairytale but do not have a clue to what is required within a marriage. If you are seeking God for your mate please be clear there are many things you should already possess before entering into a matrimony relationship. I have witnessed many women who are more in a race down the aisle not for the gift of being in love, but only so she can have the benefits which come with being a wife. 

 The First Key to a Healthy Marriage is Love, it's where it all began and Love is what shall keep you connected! Second is Faith, in yourself and your mate, Third Respect to Love each other inspite of your flaws, Fourth Equally Yoked to one another by same interest and desires for your future. If you have the basic fundamental of what it takes to become a Virtuous Wife, You Shall be headed for a Successful Marriage. But what can become a Deal breaker may be Religious Views. If you are walking with God before he comes along, it's vital that he doesn't hinder you but become apart of the plan GOD's already planned for you! Understand Women tend to change their views,focus and achievements over time.

Women between the Age of  (25-35) all believe that Love is all they need. She believes foolishly that once she take on his name she will never have to worry about anything, Her desire is to please him, and become the Mother of his children. She also knows she doesn't have much to offer back, so she may choose to place her plans on hold to help him become the main bread winner. And she may decide to end all her past friendships because her image of marriage is based around being his biggest supporter and anyone who could get in the way with her plan is now their enemy. 

Women between the Age of (36-44) are caught up with trying to become a mother and her focus of marriage is based on creating a family. Her Love for him is good but now that she's feeling like her biological clock has been ticking she is more selfish and have the thoughts of becoming a mother at the top of her agenda. Her husband has become her human punching bag, She will fault him easily for everything, from losing the toothpaste cap, failing to pull the toilet seat down, from eating all her snacks up etc... She is just bothered by his existence, and have placed total blame on him why her life isn't perfect.

Women between the Age of (45-55) is content with herself, and having a companion,to travel,talk and make love too. Now that her children are adult age, her life is based around what she wants for herself. Her plans are to encourage her children but know surround herself around new things! She has become each one of their children personal reminder of how her husband and her place certain values in them. Her husband is no longer the LOVE of her life he is her life. They are able to rekindle a love who have suffered many changes and may have withered many storms together. She is more at peace with him and where their marriage is headed.

Women between the Age of (56-Up) are ready for her legacy and teachings to be placed in the hearts of her grandchildren. She is busy trying to encourage her children who are not married yet to find wives, and has her eyes on watch for descent son-in-laws. Her time is measured around being a wife, hobbies and recreations. If she is a healthy women, her husband along with herself are trying to treasure there moments.. They are about spending quality time walking,talking thinking about their past and what the future holds for the both of them.

Marriage is what you make it to be! You can start your marriage off by first asking all the right questions, by securing the both of your life plans. If you select someone for wealth and prestige you may find that his money may secure your future but will not be the key tool in keeping the marriage from suffering human fralities. Selecting "LOVE" is a great way to begin, but know Love alone doesn't pay your bills, be careful that he can meet your needs as well. Many women are suffering from the lack of Sex and so they marry for pleasure and forget that outside of the Matrimony bed, you must live with all his corky ways and flaws. It's better to find more in common than less. For Marriage was intended to become a union and not be abused by personal addictive behaviors.

If you are ready and willing to now become a Virtuous Wife, Make sure you line your thoughts and plans up with God's because he knows,holds and shall become the both of you all future. Congratulations, to our Virtuous Sisters!

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I'M So InTo yOu..........................

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You Paid your Due's, Right from the start, What a Price to Pay.....ay  ay, 

 I'm So in Love with You, I don't know what I am going to do.......

     Hello Ladies, and Everyone, Today my Spirit has transcend on a Journey of LOVE.... This Video is a oldie but A GOODIE.. Mr. Peabo Bryson, spells how many men back in the day would really open up and allow a women to enjoy the best side of them. They weren't so eager to trade you up, if you were a good women in their book. Where did this Kind of Love for Women Go?  Those were the days, when you would go on a date and that was all it meant for some at least. But for those who wish to hear a man say those words, be encouraged there are Men who still feel this way about a women. If you are a Virtuous Women you will allow God to pick him and not yourself.

                                            Do you believe Our God can really be into you?

If not, please think again,,, I totally believe God is Pleased with Many Women of Zion, But they Lack a sense of intimacy with him because they only can see him as a father and not much more. But Scriptures says he is ALL THINGS to them that truly are believing in the faith! If you are lonely he is your comforter, if you are sick, He is your Healer.  So you can depend on his unfailing Love towards you. 

So tell me why do you lack faith that he is a rewarder to them who diligently seek him? It's a new season and even though many of you have been in a waiting season, the promises are still there. We just have to trust on God until he is ready for us to have what he want us to have. So what shall I do while I wait on The LORD? You fall in Love with Him, and allow GOD to Help him find you, so that he can satisfy what God's already started in you! I can tell SOMETHING is UP Because "LOVE" IS IN THE AIR.......

We have been swepted away by all the modern day Love songs, and forgetting that the true Essence of Love was built from back in the day where being Wholesome and pure was a good thing. Do you want to know my take?  GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING...

"By  His GLORY He shall create A Union of Love"

In his own Character is the Essence of his LOVE for all his creation. He Love you whether you love him or not, but he will invite you to Journey with him as he show you what True Love really is!  For many has accepted the Love he offers through the Journey, But there have been many who rather find it for themselves.

But for them who have shared in his Love, knows it only gets sweeter and sweeter! It's not like Man's Love. For God's Love you can depend on, through the good and the bad. On your best days and your worst days his Love shall always surround you! If you are still with me, Say "GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING".......

 I blog about the Love of Man and the Love of God because something is in my heart! I may not yet know all the details or the entire direction in which it shall enter but one thing I do sense GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING!! And I believe I'm not the only one who can feel a shift and change of Wind coming their way.

 I can feel intimacy in the words that are shared in this song! Maybe It's just me, But God will us any tool to get your attention in order to show his fullness in your life! I believe GOD hand is over me and many women here who have been pregnant with a child, And Morning has come!  Though I awake early I hear a love song, singing to me as I find my way throughout my day. It's a Love song, which is sung from a Father's Love to me! No more can I reject his Love, for it has kept me safe over the years! I can sense his warm sweet embrace saying the words peace. Call me Old School, But GOD IS DEFINITELY UP TO SOMETHING!

If you are out there no matter how near or far, God have allowed our paths to reach because you and I can feel the wind blowing across our lips! We can feel his presence laying down beside us while we sleep. we can smell his sweet aroma everywhere we go, It makes us to want more and more of him! For he  have taught me I am never alone, as long as He carry me through this Journey of Love with him!.  Thank you God for always showing yourself true in my life!

GOD BLESS YOU WHO ARE ON A JOURNEY OF LOVE TOO!!!

 

Okay, Everyone Have a Good Day! If you can relate to what you have read, Join us, and rate and comment! Thank YOU......

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DOn'T AsK My NeIgHbOr...........

                                      If Two People Love One Another, True Love can Blossom....................
If a Man really want to know what's on a Women's Mind he need to ask her and not THE  friends "SHE HANG AROUND"  and  Don't be A-F-R-A-I-D...........

eNJOY THis VIDEO!!

Many Men, are afraid of "WHAT THEY SEE" in a Virtuous Women...  Because she doesn't look like any of  the women they usually date, and her ways are very different. But if you are Single and wish to date, you have to become wise. Wisdom will bring you a TRUE MATE..

Many women believe that if she throw herself on a man she will be able to win him over. WRONG!!!
If a Man is interested in you, He will ask about you? He will go to your friends, co-workers, family members
and neighbors and ask about your well being. Men are far more careful in choosing the right person whom he wish to date seriously than women are. He may be very noisy in your eyes, but men will never go into anything serious without checking it out first!

Women are the opposite, They will get into a relationship and ask questions later. This is WHY so many women become vulnerable to the prey of many men. It's Okay to still allow a man to show interest  in you first! Learn to stop rushing, you may find you can get more from him, than you think!

WHY?
  Because Women always tend to put so much Trust in a Man. And try to dominate him by her trust in him.

BUT:
Men not only Trust women, but HE wait to see if her words can be trusted!

There is a BIG difference................................................

If a Man is truly interested in you, He's going to ask around Who are you,What it is you do, And are you Involved with anyone at the time he is determining he may be interested in you. He going to ask around before he offers up his HEART TO YOU!

Why do Men ASK?
Men are always dealing with the truth about who HE is, who HE will be, And how this will Change HIM, for the better or for the worst. His perception of Happiness is selfish in the beginning in a women eyes, because in this day more women are very independent but HE will require her to depend on him, whether he has much or very little. HE will also require and amount of intimacy and loyalty even when he is not worthy of it from you.

Why Women don't ASK?
Women are selfish because they are dealing with the perception of  "MINE and ME".  They believe the have to have their own man, and they think more how they will look to their friends and the people they are around. They normally build their world around a family and is territory to what belongs to them. And They want people to see them a certain way. So they will not ask around until that man gives them a reason. For she is way more fearful she will find truth in what she finds!

LET'S Compare:
Men want to know up front,because they don't want to be deceived and Women don't want to know because many of them want to still believe in the dream of having someone for themselves and they believe that nothing is ever perfect for them. For it is very interesting how men will protect their hearts and women
who are not so wise will not.


This Woman tells this Man if he is Looking for answers about her, He should Come to HER.....
She is smart, she knows and hears from others her man is afraid of who she may be to him and what harm she may do to his heart because she knows he cares for her. But instead of asking her how she feel he ask her friends and people who know her, Does she care for HIM......

Then she tells him this, Don't Ask Her Neighbor, Come to HER......
She reminds him, that you may ask those who will tell you the truth about me and those who may lie. Just because I hang around them don't say they truly know how much I LOVE YOU!!


She also recognize that Doubt and Fear is his two friends. And urges him to come to her because she does know if she loves him. Many Women forget that a man values YOUR WORDS to HIM... If you lie to them without a good explanation he will began to doubt the women she is or may could have seen himself with. Therefore unless you are really truthful with your own feelings for him, then can he be able to be truthful with his for you!

Men are not fools, they can see if a women is playing them for money or for love, and He also knows that a women will tell him what he rather hear than what is true for many reasons.

Example: If she is a women who needs help with bills,and living expenses, she may not be remotely attractive to this man who helps her, but she will still give herself to him, because he can help her fulfill a need.

Too many women play games, just as men does! I am not ganging up on the Women, but if you are in it to Win it, you must just keep it real with him and yourself.

Some women have feelings for a particular man and just can't explain it to him! Never miss a Window of Opportunity, I personally would not put it on so thick, but know this, there are great ways to drop seldom hints!

Because a Virtuous Women, is a women who has to hold her grounds and remember that her perception of who she is may have been already tarnished by some of  her mistakes in her past. She may have been living a very wild lifestyle, but now that she's saved and may have changed. But know it's not always easy for people to forget the old you, and behold the new you. Only by living day by day what you preach will change the hearts of many.

I agree with this Lady, A real man will ask you! He will not knock on the doors of others to camouflage his own fears, It's perfectly normal for people to be suspicious because your heart is priceless. And because many people perception of who you can be shallow and incorrect. Sometimes, I've seen that the one's who are the closest to you may want to hinder you from being with someone who can really treat you special.

                  "Whether a Person Love you or not, It's best they truly know how YOU feel"

                   I really enjoyed this Blog because the Words of this song have stayed with me........


I hope this encourage people to take Love serious, and never play with anyone's heart.

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BaTe Or MaTe?

This is a Call to the Emergency Line...... For Another Virtuous Women.......

   911 to HER rescue,  for another Virtuous Women  who is waiting for her ring..............................

HA,HA,HA........

 Sad as it may appear, day after day many Virtuous Women are being led astray and are in need of God's Rescue...  Why? Because they have been told it's better to wait around for the Ring, thanWait on GOD for A Mate!!

Yes it's true! Many of Our Women are in relationships, with men who have been making all types of promises that have not yet ever came to pass. Year after year, though her girlfriends,family and Co-worker's urge her to move on with her life, and let that Zero go, she continues to pat her foot at the alter.

Every dream of him and her at the alter is merely delayed by false promises and the only one is truly benefiting from the arrangement is HIM. His story is none other than the so called "Provisions" plan he is so call making to ensure them a prosperous future. Wow, How many times have we heard that one without ever seeing the manifestations of the provision! lol......

Is this the kind of man you wish to MARRY? are you willing to get married to a person who can take up to several years to make one Decision? Do you really have to be rich before you marry?

If you are in this category of Women, You need to tell him the "Waiting game is OVER"!!
I have so many friends who have allowed themselves to settle for men in which they had
nothing to offer them but passion. And even though passion feels good,But it doesn't pay the bills,and will never fully satisfy a relationship! It's only meant to last for a moment... After the moment it ends, you are back to where you begin!

It only leads you back without a ring! Huh.....

Does this sounds like anyone you know?

Many women can relate because SHE has been in this position by far too many times! Infact, Many Women have begin to believe the many stories about the MARTIMONY BED before SHE Weds! She have come to a notation that she better know what she's getting before she signs on the dotted line. Not so Funny huh, but after she takes the bate she still ends up without a mate!

Too many women are falling for the bate, They are allowing themselves to be bated in by their men and all his string of promises! Everytime she finally gets enough of air to resuscitate he bates her back in all over again. Funny thing what keeps her waiting is the Hope he'll finally give in an Marry her someday.

 Now, I will not say she'll never get her Ring, But I will say this She may have to wait a number of years, before she get the ring she may have could have been wearing by then. Even if  it wasn't the man she extended it to be from. There are times when a Women must began to count the cost of her Sin. She cannot allow a man to bring her life to a tragic end.

There Is A Big chances by the time you receive the ring, it's not worth, what you will receive in the end. You may do better to walk away and Wait on The LORD to send you who your heart has longed for.

Though I cannot offer solid advice,because each scenario may be different, but it's clear if you are in the waiting game, you better be clear to what you are getting for the bate Many women have come to the very end of a totally dysfunctional relationship and have learn that they do not even LOVE the man and will still marry him and risk a chance at True Love.

Then when Her marriage becomes impossible to be in, she uses her problems and pains against, the very people in the beginning who advise her to wait. Does this sound like anyone you know?

I don't want to throw the HAY at anyone, but it's clear that many Virtuous Women are being played like never before, some are very Bless to escape some of the pitfalls which was trying to overtake them, but there are still numerous of them that are being destroyed daily.

What is a Solution?

Virtuous Women, are under the attack of the enemy, she must learn which territory is her own.  If you are for GOD be for GOD, If you are for the World than be for the World. You cannot afford to stand in the middle. If she continues to leave her position without  GOD's Protection she will be slaugther by the attack.  If you are looking for Love, Look no further, GOD's Love supercedes a relationship which is built with false promises!

Learn how to get to know who YOU are, that is where it begins! Take the necessary steps to built a relationship with YOU. Learn what it is that will make you satisfied with you! I believe the best way to begin to be in a relationship with yourself, is by being in a Relationship with Christ!  He will begin to show you the real person inside of you and not only the shell your soul lives in. He will also reveal and heal your past hurts and pain, and give your life new meaning again!

Read your Word, for it teaches us how we must conduct our ways,thoughts and position. It's shows key applications to what will happen and what will not happen if we do not abide in his word. Each Story is a dialogue to strengthen your faith for each challenge. Although it may not be so easily to understand in the beginning but as you use the reference and text it shall continue to encourage and strengthen your faith for Spiritual Maturity and Growth.

Words to Women........

Women can have what they say, they can have a house,car,fine jewelry,beautiful clothes, spa day's, getaways, retreats, and for some they can have Men and Children before they wed, but what's most important is that they understand the responsiblities which lye ahead of their choices. Make decisions which are not only a quick fix to a temporary problem, but is the answer to a long lasting future.

                         It's Your Choice to take the Bate or Wait....................................................

I hope this encourage Women to look within themselves before making a lifelong decision....If you enjoyed what you've read come and join us as we discuss many different topics and feel free to post your comments!


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LiAr, LiAr Pants on Fire.........

Do You tell LIES about other Women?

   We are so bombarded with many LIES, about what is said about US until it's very hard to can identify the TRUTH when it's present. Our world is forever changing it's views on what is good and what is bad, so many people believe it's better to tell LIES to themselves than Wait on What is the TRUTH to arrive. This Topic stems from Women who Love to tell LIES About other Women inspite of confronting their own LIES about themselves. I believe there's one Factor when telling LIES about others does more harm to the one who tells it than to the one it's been told about. Mainly because A LIE shall have to be confronted with the TRUTH.  Even though  common knowledge rules first,then religion and spirituality follows because many people are not readily introduced to spiritual TRUTHS before they begin to grow and mature.

  And If that is the case many people have already been told a LIE is more powerful than the TRUTH!

  But what a LIE can do to someone, can never Supercede the GREAT BENEFITS the truth can bring to a person whom the LIE was told about or too! A person who is subject to the LIE shall overcome it's intent because it's TRUTH has no Origin.. And The LIE that was told to the Listener will only harshly expose the LIAR whom is spreading LIE in the beginning.

  A Virtuous Women, Values TRUTH over LIES...... Though many words of deception is thrown her way she relentlessly overcome all LIES with TRUTH.

               " For we are overcomers by the Blood of the Lamb, and by words of Our Testimony"

 Are you a Spreader or a Distinguisher?

  Do you tell LIES, to make yourself Look good to others, when deep down inside you don't like who you are? Or do you Distinguish LIES as if you had a fire that need to be put out?

 Even Though each person's Lives are consider a PRIVATE BOOK,which has open CHAPTERS does not give you a right to expose the most fragile inner beings of a person's character. Really when you are in NO position of your own. We are all not in a position to judge one's human fraility. Nor can we rearrange their views to slightly accompany our own.

 God has given each person a Tongue and a Mouth, and Just because you can talk, doesn't mean it should be used as a reference guide about others.

  How can Women Overcome this Problem?

  Women can learn to become sensitive to other women. If she is going through a tough time, you can offer her words of encouragement and mean it! You can offer your prayers, for her and her situation. Did you know everyone have times when they are not themselves, even you? Many times people believe everyone owe them something they themselves would never offer.

  Recently I read a comment about a Women who claims to be God fearing, and speaking negativity about others and their accomplishments. Now, how stupid does that sound. People around this women seen her always displaying herself as a God fearing women, but yet her Jealous side comes out and try and tear down other people who are doing well for themselves. Even though she was deceived to display her feels, but in the end she only exposed her true self.  

  If we are not careful we can deceive ourselves, trying to belittle others! It's a shame to see another person
bites the dust! Now the LIE she intended to hurt others caused her to be exposed herself. Only because something within herself wasn't right in the beginning. If you are a Virtuous God Fearing Women you will not ever allow yourself to be conduct a LIE search!

What is LIE search?
  This is when you search for LIES that will belittle others character and send settle hints to others to hurt their reputation.

 If you are a Women who participates in such behavior you need to stop and look at the women who tells the LIE and if that is You, You have just found who your story is about...This is certainly a evil day, but a Virtuous Women would not be caught spreading lies about others! Stop, believing the LIES you tell about others, because you listener's may discover they are the Truth about You..

LIAR, LIAR IS YOUR PANTS ON FIRE?????????????????

I hope this encourage women who are spreading LIES about other WOMEN instead of intentionly trying to tear down another begin to use that same energy to build one another UP!

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Everybody Plays the Fool......

So You was played as a Fool..........

 Hello Sisters, I don't know why but My Thoughts have been drawn to many back in the day songs!
This Man from "Main Ingredient" Leaves us a Very valuable message to Live by!  He show us how
"EVERYBODY PLAYS THE FOOL"  boy did he ever know how truth this one statement made
throughout generations to generations.

He reminds us how many people are hurt today, because someone chose to make them a fool. MAYBE you was someone's fool. Truly We all know how it feels, and how NOBODY want to be played as a fool. But believe it or not, Everyone shall be someone else's fool. There is "NO EXCEPTIONS to the rule.

WHAT rule is that? It's "LOVE".  Many have said, Love me soft and Love me gentle but please don't play me as a fool....

HOW many times have your HEART been Broken?  1,,,2,,,,3,,,   and so on...........

Don't try and make yourself look like it's never happened to you, if not it can and most cases it will, but his statement is true;  "There is no promise, that the one you LOVE is going to LOVE YOU!!

           So no matter how many roses you buy, how many meals you eat together, no matter
           how many times you kiss, they may not be in LOVE WiTH YOU.

But let's get his full message, He begins to tell the story off by encouraging a friend  he knew who was hurting from a painful break up and they didn't want to face the fact....that the one they didn't love them.... because TRUE Love hurts! He encourages them how "EVERYBODY PLAYS THE FOOL,SOMETIMES.......

For LOVE has no grants! And when your heart is broken No doctor can write you a prescription for
a Broken heart...  All you can do is sit around and think...

What I have learn that we can only feel the emotions of the heart when "YOU ARE IN LOVE"
and when your heart is Broken....

When your not in love you may like someone, but you don't invest everything into them because you like them instead of LOVE them.

        For many will try and hurt you because they don't understand the magnitude of
                                                                     LOVE.............

It's Valentine's Day, and Many Couples will plan their day to spend with the one whom they love.  They will offer Gifts, Surprises,Candlelight Dinners, Breakfast in Bed, and Some will go all the way out and shut down restaurants for that special someone.  Keep in mind they do it all because of this one word  called "LOVE".

Stores around the USA will make BIG BUCK off an Emotion and many will dig deep to feed it's
intent. But what is the lesson to be learned "LOVE is not brought, or Stolen  But it's Given Freely
to the one's who are in LOVE....

But, For those who are hurting and are in great pain, who have ran into someone who cared little
about the pain they caused you, to those who planned for this day and was dumped weeks
days, or moments before it came, for those who is still holding onto grudges, and have plot to
get even with the one you love, for those who feel like life isn't worth living. Remember his
Words, " EVERYBODY PLAYS THE FOOL" sometimes..." NO EXCEPTIONS TO THE RULES"

                                     Biggest Key: "USE YOUR HEART LIKE A TOOL"

This means you must be careful who you share your LOVE with! Many will say how can I do this?  "Guard your Heart"  Many people meet on Monday and fall in Love
on Tuesday.  Love is Beautiful, yes, I will say that, But love can be harmful if you don't use
it in the right way! 

Below is a list of ways to Guard your heart..................
PRAY TO GOD TO REVEAL THIS PERSON TO YOU, INSIDE OUT...........Then obey what he tells you....
1. never do for someone what they would not do for you.
2. take your time, don't rush Love. It will find you...
3. start off slow and easy, learn all you need to know first.
4. make them take you on dates to outdoor places see if they will treat you special.
5. if you supsect anything that is not pleasing in your eyesight. call it quits early on!


There is no formula for the heart, Infact we in most cases can't really choose who we will love
but we can learn to guard our heart.  For everyone who says they Love you, tell them to show you and see how fast they may disappear.

Love is forever changing, Our World doesn't value True Love anymore, for they Love themselves more than others. Why because it hurts! Nobody wants to be a fool......

If you are single and want LOVE learn how to Love yourself first and True Love will find you...
Look around you there are always signs of Love, it doesn't always have to be found in someone
Special.
May everyone be Blessed by all the Love In the Air.......

I hope you are inspired to wait on true love, because it will come looking for you....
Happy Valentine's Day......

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DiD sHe KnOw?

Did She Know........

 She was the Apple of her Fathers eyes,
 She was created in HIS Beauty and HIS splendor.

Her Radiance shined like HIS Glory day after day,
HE made her a reflection of HIS LOVE, nothing was missing
from her and nothing was broken in her.

Her flair and her style made many adored her with her presence,
with her laugh and smile many wanted to be her.
She had the world in the Palm of her hand, But she was
never satisfied, So GOD took it all away. Because
Her Love for Fame and Fortune, Always stood in HIS way.

One day she notice she was not the same, all the people
around her changed, But God wanted her to see it wasn't
them who changed, But it was HIM who changed her.

 HE had great plans to have her grow HIS kingdom, and
 rule of HIS domains, But this plan for her would make
 her feel ashame.

But Did She Know, Her lost was HIS Gain, She had already
Mastered what she was once called to do, but now HE had
called her to do a greater task, not only for him,but now with God.

If she only would have looked deeper within herself and seen
that every cry, every experience was not in vain,
That her Father's Love for her surpassed all her pain,

No Comeback, would have ever made a difference,
but in HIS word, in HIS presence,  and by HIS love
Would have paved the way to a new beginning for her.

The spotlight,the love from others had become
 a hinderous in her way, Her trust in HIM, and her
 Love for HIM had begin to dissolve in many ways.

Her heart became more Broken, Than words could ever say,
she rarely said how much she loved HIM,and
all her emotions away.

God Love for her still never ceased because
in her darkest moments HE would still
grant her peace. A chance to Love and A
Chance to forgive, HE knew she would need him again.

For HE knew it would come a day and time
when HE would reveal to her, why all good
things begin and come to an end.

But Did She Know there is a time when what we
do for this world will not matter anymore, because
of it's forever changing face, but surely what we
do for Christ will never be erased.

And with God amazing Love, HE would
Help her finish her race.
                                                           
By. K.Thomas
So many times Women fall short of their Father's Love, They tolerate his love for the sake of
their sins, they never look back and see How Patient HE'S been. Day after Day he tries to build
a relationship with them and unlike the Proverb 31 women she recognized she was not the creator nor could she wash away all her sins, she was only a vessel of HIS. Do not let your Pride become your promise.


Remember your plans will never exceed HIS Plans..


I hope you are inspired to Let God Love you Inside Out, Let him direct your path,
and stop taking every No, Wait or Not right now personal. He will give you his
plan which will be your future.

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