wHEN a wOMan LoVes A mAn..................

When a Woman Loves a Man.....................

We are going to discover just how deep a Woman's Love can be For her man!
Yesterday, I blogged about:: " When  a Man Loves a Woman" now today I will talk about When a Woman Loves a Man.


Women are very basic, they see a man then they aim to get him! But is this the way it was intended to be?

 God's plan for women is to be considered a help mate to her husband and mother to his children, and wife to her husband. But many women have taken on the role of the man because she can no longer trust the words that come from him when she's the one who is left to carry the weight! WHY because she already knows, had she not loved this man she would not have been left in this situation to raise HIM and the KIDS!


Our Modern day society has adapted to the ideal of women supporting their homes instead of placing the responsibility on the man even if he is no longer in the home. Though she may feel alone and abandon she is still yet forgiving of her man's error for the sake of Love.

When he is in the Home she's always rearranging her schedules to make sure she is by his side when He needs her the most.  As women many have the desire as EVE did when in the garden as she ate of the fruit, she could have easily chose to eat the entire fruit alone, but No, she went and offered her husband a piece as well. My point is women are always sharing and including their spouses or man in things even when it was for them to enjoy alone. It's funny how the serpent SUGGESTED that she eat from the tree first. But scriptures, only addressed what happened after she and him ate from the tree!

But how do we know if anything would have happened if Adam hadn't joined in?   Just food for your thought. I believe maybe Satan wanted to see what was going to happen himself, and when she ate of the fruit she didn't act like anything was different until the both had ate from the tree.This example alone showed the Love God had for Women, because were made to help our mate. He knew she had been mislead by satan, and at the sametime her husband had not taken the lead and through this very event Women have been called to become independent in their thinking!

Which has cause many women to feel if there spouses are making way less monies she rather help him think he's still doing better than her. Women who are in love with their man never hold back. They will help him when he's in need without seeing that man playing them. I have seen women who love their man, buy clothes, shoes, make car notes, by furniture, clean the men house, help him get a better job, let him stay at her place when he lost his own, let him drive her car, and give him money when he is down on his luck! Many Women will offer their prize possessions for the sake of Love.

She will selfishly not bare children even if she's always wanted children for herself just because he does want any. She will change her friends or let them all go for him, she will slender down, make beauty changes, add implants to area's of her body He wish she had more for him to enough and correctly have surgeries which can jeopardize her own health for the sake of Love.

And if her family is not supportive in her choice to be with him, she'll leave them alone, for the sake of loving her man. Women for many years, have sacrifice many things to have a man be with them!

I will tell you many men would not risk many pleasures,unless they are in Love with you! But even then a Woman Love out beats his Efforts.

Men don't leave or write off their families, even if their mother don't like her. He may have little to do with them and will still blame the woman for the fact his mother doesn't really care for her. And if he really want children and his women doesn't he will find someone who does want to father his children, he will not end friendships because many of his friend disapprove of who he is dating. Nor will he offer his possessions up freely unless he feels guilty just for the sake of  Love. He will never freely forgive you for making more money unless the extra is spent on him. He will rarely give his house keys out and allow a women only his girlfriend to come by and wash, watch tv, and stay at his home as much as they like unless she's past many of his test! He will not easily go under the knife to correct his body part only if that is what he chose. And he will not lose weight unless he's single again, he will go to the gym more as a recreation for himself. And if he's a single dad, he will never abandon his children he will become resentful if the woman he loves doesn't welcome them like they were her own. And you will not drive his car all the time instead he may help you find your own. Let's Face it, Men are way more selfish than women.


Women are the bomb! We have a deeper desire to be loved and were not afraid to let some of our desires go to have a man's love. Even though I personally don't believe you should have to make all these changes to have a man's love, I must not ignore many women will do anything to have a man's love.  My heart goes out to the many women who have allowed themselves to be tricked and those who have denied themselves from experiencing life on a greater level. This blog is only created to show a Woman's love for a man.

I hope you enjoyed this blog and if so leave me a comment! Have a Wonderful day.....

By Sisterhoods Bookclub
On Facebook: Sisterhoods Bookclub
On Twitter: 4Virtuouswomen

Where did her Virtue Go?

"Tonight is the Night"..............

By: Betty Wright                 

We can never assume when and where it will happen for our Children but It's bound to take place!

This message today may be a little off the Topic because it deals with a story of a Young Girl, in Love and wanting to prove her love and at the sametime losing her Virginity to become A Woman!  Although she was still rather young she realized herself that there are consequences, when we play with sin, she still rather particpate with the process because she wanted to win the heart of her lover. So her story begin, "Tonight is the Night". As a parent we tend to dread this moment because we know it comes with many different consequences and majority of the time, we as the parent will have to deal with the problems that may stem for our own children actions. So we try and push this topic further and further away, hoping because they are young they may not be quite ready. But as she sings her song, she talks about her being a very young girl trying to become a women, because her boyfriend told her he would make her a Woman. 

But what she may have thought before going along with her boyfriends suggestion, A Woman will carefully look at all that she is risking before moving forward and then determine is this the "RIGHT THING" for her and not make it all about him. Perhaps, she did, but Love got the best of her. But what we women tend to miss is Do the Men we Love Deserve what we are trying to give away so fast?

I picked this Song, because Betty Wright goes through her song, the way it normally goes down! She doesn't forget to tell her fears,and concerns in this event, She also touches her fears and reservations of her Mother finding out and what shame and pain her decision would have cost not only herself but her family. And then she acknowledge her Rebellion. Perhaps (Betty) Became (EVE). She actually broke it down to show how young girls are wisked away by this spirit of Love. And if you listen to the song in it's entirety you will hear her own innocence and sacrifice which was given up for her title as she became a woman. Betty Wright  did a superb job in expressing to her audience just what happens when a girl tries to cross over to womanhood.

I believe that we as parents must deal with this same Topic in our Households, we must not hide the truth and facts for the sake of time. Once that young girl is the age of 13, she need to know about her virginity and what will happen if she gives it away.

She needs to be informed about the Highs and Lows of Love, and How we were created to love one another but we must use sound judgment in doing so! We must share the contents of some of our own experiences with our children in order for them to realize their is no reason to rush, because you can only lose your virginity once! And by talking to your daughters, letting them know the many epidemics of diseases, teen pregnancy, and suicide among young girls who have so much peer pressure among themselves while trying to survive and achieve their education. It shall be then, many of our Mother and Daughter rivalry will end.

I will expose the Secret:

The reason why Daughters have a problem with their Mother's is because young girls admire their mothers freedom. And they believe our Freedom is contributed through sex. This is their (Fruit) that we as parents forbid them like with Eve.  But what they don't understand is why we try and tell them that their is "Consequences" to their actions, and since we are older enough to deal with them, your daughter/son may not yet be mature enough to deal with it on their own! But since they admires your freeness, they too want to experience it for themselves way to soon and in come "Rebellion".

If you and your daughter is always arguing it's because sin  is present! Young girls/women only try and lash their tongues when they are trying to be all grown and trying to push their parents because Just Like:  "Satan told Eve, if you eat of this fruit, you will not surely die." (Gen. 3:4)  and so what happened! She did! Eve was what a Young Girl, She right then lost her "Virtue"  And immediately scripture reminds us she and her husband was separated from her (GOD) which was their what? Virginity!  (GOD) was their Father the (Parent). And because of Sin Rebellion was born! She lost her Virginity with Christ first because she chose in the garden to rebell against him her God!  Why? Because she too was trying to be like Him!

Isn't that the same thing our children do with us? Once the virginity is lose in come disrespect,lying,mouthing off,cursing,fighting,and Because God is a God of peace he kicked them out of the garden. When our children is trying new things there will be signs. Because we are Like God, We already know when something is wrong if we are in tune with our children spiritually.  And rebellion always have friends that will follow beside him. We as believer's must search scriptures to see what sign is linked to what sin that is presence!

So what did (GOD) do when he exposed their sin? He immediately kicked them out of the garden, this was the consequences of  their sin! And since God already told them what he wanted them not to do,and they failed to listen He had to still enforce the rules in his own Garden (House). We cannot kick our children out of our homes, because we must allow them to become of age. But we can talk with them and let them know how sin affects everyone in the household. And if they continue to be a partaker of it's folly they shall be cursed by their own sin.

This message is deep, because we need to address this lying spirit before it gets in the hearts of our children, through their friends and other tools that the enemy will use to persuade them to become a partaker of his plan. Remember Satan is bold, and he is crafty. He will use anything to rob our children from their Inheritance in Christ Jesus. And He knows it works! How he knows it works? Becaused he used it on US!  And I will show how.

Everytime you try and urge your daughters or sons, not to have Sexual Intercourse they will say what? MOM, You did it!  You are standing their looking at this beautiful innocent face and the first defense they will always use is:  Well,You did it! Who is that speaking to you? Satan.  Why does satan uses this same spirit? Because he still tries to convince us today that the sin is OK, and he want to shut the mouths of them who can testify to it's consequence so he stares you right in the face and speaks to you through your innocent childs mouth! Because he knows because of that childs innocents you will shut your mouth IMMEDIATELY!!

 But if we train or children about Christ before hand they  will be convicted of their own participation with this form of sin! We can be as transparent as they can handle but we must speak the truth about it's contents and not allow our children to use it against us! Now, See God he put them out, because he already knew that was Satan, and that spirit would only defile the garden. But he still made provision for them because they were still his children. Now you see, it was the Spirit of Satan, God removed from the Garden that was trying to have the mind of God's Children. That my friend is a Parents Love....

I pray that every reader is encouraged to speak into your childs life, remind them of the promises our God has made with us, allow them to understand the truth that is before them. And never be afraid the ears it shall fall on. I also pray your children ears shall be opened to it's truths! God Bless you.......

 By: Sisterhoods Bookclub,

On Facebook: Sisterhoods Bookclub

On Twitter: 4VirtuousWomen

WhO iS BroWn SugAr.........

                                                              Who is Brown Sugar?

Hello Everyone, I just want to share! For Her Skin Tone tells a Deeper Story than what you Think!

Though her skin color is made of many different shades, you are still  "Brown Sugar"..........For many decades our world tend to forget Women of Color have Ruled it all! She was the First of her kind, though her complexion was darker than some she was the one who paved the way for others...

Look below and see how "Powerful  "BROWN SUGAR" really was and Is still today.........

Her Duties:

She was the First Woman to hold a Job:   Brown Sugar was the first women to hold down a regular Job.Although she was place into the fields because of her skin tone, she held the title for women who had to work outside of her own home. And was paid very little wages for the work she did!

She was the First Cook:  Brown Sugar had some "Mad" skills on how to prepare different foods we still enjoy! When you chew on Fried Chicken,Collard Greens,Rice with gravy know this she was up early in the mornings slaving over a Oven trying to prepare"Supper" for a family which was not her own. Her  food was impeccable, and She begin to notice she had been given Ingredients in which God gave her to become a Brilliant Business women with a Niche for Good Old Soul Food Eateries. For her Brown skin  paved her way and helped others as well.
 
She was the First Housekeeper:  Brown Sugar knows how to clean a house. She was known to be the  Servant, Slave or Help. She was told that she must scrub the floors, walls, dishes, countertops and wash all the linen and clothes several times a day. She was the first women to master her skill and take care of a big  Fantasy Home, and she was left in charge to train other house helpers and was given full reign on how to organize her duties day after day.

She was the First Baby Sitter:  Brown Sugar was told to nurse,bathe, watch and teach the children while the Mother was free to shop and tend to her husband so called needs. Brown Sugar became the first Women who Mothered Children in which she did not conceive and whom was not the same color of her Skin. She became the first caregiver.

She was the First Hairstylist:  Brown Sugar had some "Mad" skills! She's trained herself to wear a fro or straighten her sheep textured hair. Many women became jealous of Her true beauty she possess and is still to this day. For she was the one who invented the straightening of the hair through the Stove in order to get her hair to look beautiful like other ethnicity. Her skills range from Braiding to Weaving and everything in between. And many cultures have adapted to her teachings!
   
 She Is the First Woman of Faith:  Brown Sugar talents have always shined higher than any North,South or Eastern star. She created Prayer and Worship. Her daily routine was to pray and sing old hymns as she hung clothes on the lines, and as she rocked the babies to sleep while their mothers took a nap. She always was and is the Greatest Prayer warrior of her kind.


Though she may have been the first women who told a man NO, Stop or  I Can't, does not make her an enemies. Why do other Culture men hate her because she is not easily convinced. She has learned how to become a VirtuousWomen by the barren tone color of her skin. Though she may be different from other women doesn't mean she is not special as well. She may have an attitude and a different types of styling principles but it doesn't justify she's not equal to other women and race. Her Lips may be fuller and she may have a Curvaceous Shape but she is Still "Brown Sugar". Not one women should have ever been ridiculed because of her race. For it's God's choice that he made a shade deeper than others,not darker because we all well go back to the same dirt in which we were made. Next time you see her recognize, she's not just a Women of Color but she God's First Women of many shades and colors. She is the one who have suffered and reigned again and again! She Is a Nubian Queen from many tribes with many gifts and talents. For she shall be recognized as GOD's First Women of grace and her name is still "Brown Sugar"......

 If you don't know, you better ask someone, She's Powerful and Beautiful and Her Name is "Brown Sugar"  Because she have placed her Faith not in things but in values. Hopefully next time you look at "Brown Sugar" you witness the Queen from within!

  When we learn to open our Eyes Up, We can spot the Beauty in All. I hope you enjoyed my blog!
  I have been waiting to sharing this piece with you..........


By: Sisterhoods Bookclub,
On Facebook: Sisterhoods Bookclub
On Twitter: 4VirtuousWomen