wHEN a wOMan LoVes A mAn..................

When a Woman Loves a Man.....................

We are going to discover just how deep a Woman's Love can be For her man!
Yesterday, I blogged about:: " When  a Man Loves a Woman" now today I will talk about When a Woman Loves a Man.


Women are very basic, they see a man then they aim to get him! But is this the way it was intended to be?

 God's plan for women is to be considered a help mate to her husband and mother to his children, and wife to her husband. But many women have taken on the role of the man because she can no longer trust the words that come from him when she's the one who is left to carry the weight! WHY because she already knows, had she not loved this man she would not have been left in this situation to raise HIM and the KIDS!


Our Modern day society has adapted to the ideal of women supporting their homes instead of placing the responsibility on the man even if he is no longer in the home. Though she may feel alone and abandon she is still yet forgiving of her man's error for the sake of Love.

When he is in the Home she's always rearranging her schedules to make sure she is by his side when He needs her the most.  As women many have the desire as EVE did when in the garden as she ate of the fruit, she could have easily chose to eat the entire fruit alone, but No, she went and offered her husband a piece as well. My point is women are always sharing and including their spouses or man in things even when it was for them to enjoy alone. It's funny how the serpent SUGGESTED that she eat from the tree first. But scriptures, only addressed what happened after she and him ate from the tree!

But how do we know if anything would have happened if Adam hadn't joined in?   Just food for your thought. I believe maybe Satan wanted to see what was going to happen himself, and when she ate of the fruit she didn't act like anything was different until the both had ate from the tree.This example alone showed the Love God had for Women, because were made to help our mate. He knew she had been mislead by satan, and at the sametime her husband had not taken the lead and through this very event Women have been called to become independent in their thinking!

Which has cause many women to feel if there spouses are making way less monies she rather help him think he's still doing better than her. Women who are in love with their man never hold back. They will help him when he's in need without seeing that man playing them. I have seen women who love their man, buy clothes, shoes, make car notes, by furniture, clean the men house, help him get a better job, let him stay at her place when he lost his own, let him drive her car, and give him money when he is down on his luck! Many Women will offer their prize possessions for the sake of Love.

She will selfishly not bare children even if she's always wanted children for herself just because he does want any. She will change her friends or let them all go for him, she will slender down, make beauty changes, add implants to area's of her body He wish she had more for him to enough and correctly have surgeries which can jeopardize her own health for the sake of Love.

And if her family is not supportive in her choice to be with him, she'll leave them alone, for the sake of loving her man. Women for many years, have sacrifice many things to have a man be with them!

I will tell you many men would not risk many pleasures,unless they are in Love with you! But even then a Woman Love out beats his Efforts.

Men don't leave or write off their families, even if their mother don't like her. He may have little to do with them and will still blame the woman for the fact his mother doesn't really care for her. And if he really want children and his women doesn't he will find someone who does want to father his children, he will not end friendships because many of his friend disapprove of who he is dating. Nor will he offer his possessions up freely unless he feels guilty just for the sake of  Love. He will never freely forgive you for making more money unless the extra is spent on him. He will rarely give his house keys out and allow a women only his girlfriend to come by and wash, watch tv, and stay at his home as much as they like unless she's past many of his test! He will not easily go under the knife to correct his body part only if that is what he chose. And he will not lose weight unless he's single again, he will go to the gym more as a recreation for himself. And if he's a single dad, he will never abandon his children he will become resentful if the woman he loves doesn't welcome them like they were her own. And you will not drive his car all the time instead he may help you find your own. Let's Face it, Men are way more selfish than women.


Women are the bomb! We have a deeper desire to be loved and were not afraid to let some of our desires go to have a man's love. Even though I personally don't believe you should have to make all these changes to have a man's love, I must not ignore many women will do anything to have a man's love.  My heart goes out to the many women who have allowed themselves to be tricked and those who have denied themselves from experiencing life on a greater level. This blog is only created to show a Woman's love for a man.

I hope you enjoyed this blog and if so leave me a comment! Have a Wonderful day.....

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WhEn A MaN LOveS A WoMaN.........

Hello Everyone, It's Been awhile, But I am Back!

       WHen A MaN LoVes A WoMan!!

Over the Mother's Day Weekend as I sat in the Chair to have my Pedicure and Manicure done, I heard my Mancurist play Micheal Bolton Track over and over again!  I began to sing this song after I left.
                                     "When A Man Loves A Woman"


But what was quite interesting I've always loved this Song, The very first time  I seen  Micheal Bolton performed this song on OPRAH WINFREY show...... Yes, it's been along time ago. Honey, this man can SING!!!

 This song is why I blog today!

When a Man Loves a Women, She can't do anything wrong,  Wow.......

Many women are always chatting about a man they love, than a man that really loves them! We as women will sit around in packs discussing all the things our mates have done wrong but will rarely share the things he's done for the sake of LOVE.

It's hard for women to talk about Love when they are so busy trying to understand if the man their involved with really likes them!

My daughter and I was talking about her friend, which she's grown fond feelings for! But she says,, Mom I just can't say he feels the same for me! I begin to symphatize with her and THen she asked the Big Question!  HOW DO A WOMEN KNOW WHEN A MAN LOVES HER?

I Think my best and most truthful answer was this:  "When she can see "She's" his priority even if he have to place her needs and wants before his own".  He only want her to be "HAPPY" because if she's happy he knows he will be too!

Then she said, Well How will she know if she has the right man?

I told her, Okay Let's talk for a moment!  When I got straight down to it, this was my words, I believe when a woman see's her man she will know it! She and He will feel and exchange even if they don't  know each other well. As they stand or sit around one another, there is an innocent attraction from both people. Now as the attraction grows it will cause both parties to want to get to know one another better!

And Once they are talking and trying to learn about one another, they will begin to see if this person is good for them! Now if the Women has prayed earnestly for a Husband God will speak to her spirit about him and she will begin to see moreover his life and what is his "Desires" and her spirit will be attentive to his spirit because she no longer will feel just a physical attraction, she will have spiritual attraction which will require her to see his faults,mistakes, and failure from a spiritual eye than a natural eye.

She will not defend him, or rescue him because he is not a stray dog! But she'll see where she can see herself fit into his life without trying to fight with him to become apart of his world. And she will cause him to love her from his soul and not only from the beats of his own heart! If a man Loves a Woman, Micheal Bolton is right, He will not stand by and let his best friend talk against her, because if you talk about her, she is now apart of who he is and he will not stand for that anymore!

Though his Love is deep for her, and she may take him through many hoops, but he knows that when he's around her, or lying right under her there's no better place for "HIM" he rather be.

Now, Women stop trying to make a man Love you! You are worth more than Rubies really if you are a Virtuous Woman! It's sound simple, but it really is like this:  "He either Love you, or He doesn't" either way you still WIN in the end! If he does, then you have what it take in his eyes to make him feel secure. And if he doesn't, it's better to end it than force yourself on someone, who will only disrespect you because you don't make him feel the way he knows real love feels. If you let him go you only Open the Door for someone else who will show you how you should be treated and Loved.

I cannot offer advise because everyone situation is unique! But I suggest you be careful to Whom you trust with your LOVE because When a Man Loves a Woman, SHE must Love Him Back for the Love to Last!

Enjoy the Video and have a Very Blessed Day!


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"ThE eXprEsSiOn Of LoVe"

Hello Everyone,

Today I want to share a message which shows the first of many expressions of LOVE. Though this is the First expression which always leads to intimacy it's speaks loud when mouths are silenced but it carries great power and substance inside this gesture of Love between a men and a woman. It is the expression of "Holding Hands". 

Did you know when you hold hands with someone, it's a very intimate message you send to each person as well to others who watch you displaying your affections towards one another?

Today, I am reminded in so many ways Love can be expressed!  Many times we look to hear a person state verbally "How much they Love You" instead of allowing True Love to be found in it's expression or gesture. But Love has many different expressions and if they are recognized you can sense a meaning within each expression.

Love is a very deep subject, and for most people if they've been hurt it's a topic many care to talk about because their concept is now "True Love" doesn't really exist aleast from their perception. Their ideal of what Love is only is based on how that person made them feel when they exchanged heat, or when that person Kissed them for the very first time and so on. But it's very interesting you rarely hear people bragging about their first time holding hands with one another and how much intimate they became with this expression.

Does this expression of Love shows great or equal benefits as well as being told you are loved or being Kiss?

If you are lost, we are talking about the expression of Love by Holding Hands! Now if you are somewhat a hopeless romantic you may see It does! But it's contents are highly overlooked. Now, for me when a MAN holds my hands I sense a ownership,really liking me,intimacy,mutal bond connection. If I be truly honest I never hold hands just because! It's normally with someone I may feel I am interested enough into before sharing this expression with. 

I know it's crazy but it's that one expression of Love people rarely talk about because it's a silent expression which  carries a Great Weigh before two people usually enter down the journey of Love! Infact when I see two people holding hands it reminds me of Love and how they must be In Love! It's a very silent but at the sametime loud gesture of Love. And it shows the direction in which the person's are acknowledging for one another such as the territorial strength of their relationship and is openly display to let others know they have reached a mutal bond with one another.  If a man feels comfortable with a woman and he choose to hold her hand, he is making a geniune statement of Love and sincerity towards her and she as well toward him.  For I am forced to look back over the hands of Love I've shared with men, but I must be honest the one's who we shared the strongest love was the one's I held more the hands of.

                                               Can you remember Love?

Now, when you Hold the hands of and potential Love interest it's an expression of Trust. It allows both parties to recognize they are walking in the same direction and they share a mutal bond and connection. When you hold your mate hands you immediate exchange ideals, and open the door for more ways to show your expression of Love to one another.

If you are with a person and they never hold your hand what does this mean?

It only tells that true intimacy is being ignored or may not be a option at that moment. And if that person pulls away everytime you try and hold their hands this states they are not physically attracted to you enough to recognize or even consider this expression of Love. Perhaps, this is their way of drawing a fork in the road to imply what the nature of your friendship is!

If a person have a sound interest in you they would never be ashame to hold your hand. Actually if they have feelings for you they will want that closeness. If it's your first time holding hands, it's possible the other person is trying to get you to know they want more intimacy with you!

Even though it's the most least of the expression it holds much power. It is the one expression which opens the door to all the other expression of Love. Love is personal and when a man holds a women hand whether publicly or privately he is choosing to open his door of affections up to her. He has realized that she is somone he believes he can trust with the truth and with his heart. We must stop waiting to only hear the Expressions of Love but recognize what we see in people who makes those expressions toward us!

If you've ever wondered why people hold hands, because they are physically attracted to one another. Both people are comfortable with the thought of being each others, and they have consciously decided that they will no longer try to direct the Journey of Love by the Expression of Love and by holding hands!

I hope you who read my blogs understand Love is the greatest gifts of them all, without Love you can never move forward and you can never experience True Intimacy if you do not reach a common goal for the many different expressions of LOVE.......... I hope you enjoy the The "Expression of Love".

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LoVe'S MisSion.................................

It's a Day that I remember the Love that surrounds me. It's a Day that I remember who cares the Most for me. It's a Day I find  True LOVE.............

My thoughts among many have driven me to the word "LOVE" and How it is granted to the Heart of a Man through a Virtuous Women. I had begin to watch a Movie on DVD, in which at first I felt it had a boring story plot which was common to other Love Stories.
 
Attention Viewers: I am going to make this Blog Fun!  By challenging all my viewer's to come and Join me, as I give away a Starbucks or Coffee House Gift Card to whomever can tell me the "Name or Title" of this Movie?  Now I shall continue my Blog...........

So As I was saying The beginning of the Story was Boy meets Girl, Boy finds out the Girl he was with was using him, and he discovers it wasn't love for her. So the plot turns around and now Boy meets A Woman and From the moment they laid eyes on each other they found Love....

Why I selected this Story to help me build my blog, because unfortunately we can never as humans say where will LOVE find us! Did your know LOVE has a mission To Find you.......

One of LOVE biggest assignment is to find a place where it shall never end! Believe it or not, LOVE has no end. It can only be contained by two people who allows it's to find rest in them. Many have missed the depth of it's being by only believing LOVE is driven by a emotion and not and assignment. But I will prove that 'True LOVE' has a Mission.

For many Women over the age of 25 now days they find themselves restless,and in fear it will not appear or find it's way home to them, but Love has a Mission and the timing begins when we say we are ready to experience the "TRUTH in LOVE." For many they may have to cross over many mountains to find true love but for others it may be right among the people who live are breathe around you. My question to you are you holding True love in the palm of your hands and don't even know it?

Many times Virtuous Women center their lives around their family and friends, and when they become a certain age group they forget what new Love can bring by looking back at all of their past experience. So they make excuses why they don't need Love and they begin to build fortesses are their lives so that it may not have a chance to find them. And after many years, many become lonely and bitter. Their mind set for themselves and others around them are True Love doesn't exist. Because they forgot to listen to their heart and not only to their painful memories.

But the real truth is they are Afraid of what Love Will DO to them! They are scared that True Love will save them from a life they have designed for themselves, which is lonely and selfish.  Some of them become Cold and Old never allowing True Love to enter in again!

(HINT): "She became confused and lonely, but LOVE had a Mission and it had her name and address
attached to it's Invite." Just think if she wasn't willing she would have missed her one True L ove.

But In the end TRUE LOVE conquers ALL!  Why Because for Most Men being with a Women who is loving, and not afraid to give him her all speaks volumes to his soul. Even when he never let her know he has heard her cry. In fact God have given them a Silent ear which allows them to know when a Good thing is for them! And though many great women have been abused by their behavior does not excuse LOVE's mission. Because we are not the one who offers Love, we are the recipients of his Love!

In the Movie (She) had to cut the relationship off,  because she didn't understand LOVE's mission. She allowed the fears of her failed marriage and the opinions of her friends to stir her away from LOVE's mission, her excuse for not receiving it was placed back on him, and how she felt she would only
rob him from what Love would one day offer him. But little did she know LOVE had chose her.

Now FiVE years later, they run smack face to face in a.................  What seemed to have been many years to them was on a few moments for us the viewer's but what made it all worth the while when you see how LOVE's mission had been restless,but silence wanting to finally find it's place home! Both had the same feeling at the sametime for LOVE's mission. After looking in one another eyes again, LOVE was still calling and craving for it's home.... I cried for them, because he already Knew what she had to find out, for herself in the beginning! It reminded me of LOVE's mission in my life! Today I found LOVE'S mission, I began to see that Love was not just a feeling it was like he said to her "it was about timing" Thank GOD he had her in his heart and never forgot LOVE's call for her.  She found out that you can contain many things but when LOVE rings you Must answer it's CALL! This time she allowed LOVE to complete it's mission!

How many times we as Virtuous Women Fight with LOVE's mission? But yet we say we want to experience TRUE LOVE! We would risk growing old and lonely than enjoy LOVE's Mission..  So many women have draped themselves in beautiful clothes, fake hair and long beautiful nails,Fantasy rides to satisfy a craving for love. They have told themselves, If I look good that's good enough! Perhaps, for some it will be their call, But for them who believe LOVE has a mission to find them,  listen to rhythms of your heart! Allow LOVE's mission to teach you what will be required to hear his call. It's okay to want LOVE presence because GOD is LOVE's Mission. So when he Calls you will you just let the phone ring or will you finally answer HIS Call?

As the Story ends LOVE finds it's HOME.... How funny, I said to myself, LOVE has a home, yet it's released from one to another, though it may become restless when it's not released but once it's found it's home and the mission is completed it's free to grow and blossom as it was created.

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ArE yOu ReAdY tO BeCome A wIFe?

Are you ready to become A Wife?

 Does the Vision of Marriage have you in bondage with the reality of Who you shall be............

To many women want the fairytale but do not have a clue to what is required within a marriage. If you are seeking God for your mate please be clear there are many things you should already possess before entering into a matrimony relationship. I have witnessed many women who are more in a race down the aisle not for the gift of being in love, but only so she can have the benefits which come with being a wife. 

 The First Key to a Healthy Marriage is Love, it's where it all began and Love is what shall keep you connected! Second is Faith, in yourself and your mate, Third Respect to Love each other inspite of your flaws, Fourth Equally Yoked to one another by same interest and desires for your future. If you have the basic fundamental of what it takes to become a Virtuous Wife, You Shall be headed for a Successful Marriage. But what can become a Deal breaker may be Religious Views. If you are walking with God before he comes along, it's vital that he doesn't hinder you but become apart of the plan GOD's already planned for you! Understand Women tend to change their views,focus and achievements over time.

Women between the Age of  (25-35) all believe that Love is all they need. She believes foolishly that once she take on his name she will never have to worry about anything, Her desire is to please him, and become the Mother of his children. She also knows she doesn't have much to offer back, so she may choose to place her plans on hold to help him become the main bread winner. And she may decide to end all her past friendships because her image of marriage is based around being his biggest supporter and anyone who could get in the way with her plan is now their enemy. 

Women between the Age of (36-44) are caught up with trying to become a mother and her focus of marriage is based on creating a family. Her Love for him is good but now that she's feeling like her biological clock has been ticking she is more selfish and have the thoughts of becoming a mother at the top of her agenda. Her husband has become her human punching bag, She will fault him easily for everything, from losing the toothpaste cap, failing to pull the toilet seat down, from eating all her snacks up etc... She is just bothered by his existence, and have placed total blame on him why her life isn't perfect.

Women between the Age of (45-55) is content with herself, and having a companion,to travel,talk and make love too. Now that her children are adult age, her life is based around what she wants for herself. Her plans are to encourage her children but know surround herself around new things! She has become each one of their children personal reminder of how her husband and her place certain values in them. Her husband is no longer the LOVE of her life he is her life. They are able to rekindle a love who have suffered many changes and may have withered many storms together. She is more at peace with him and where their marriage is headed.

Women between the Age of (56-Up) are ready for her legacy and teachings to be placed in the hearts of her grandchildren. She is busy trying to encourage her children who are not married yet to find wives, and has her eyes on watch for descent son-in-laws. Her time is measured around being a wife, hobbies and recreations. If she is a healthy women, her husband along with herself are trying to treasure there moments.. They are about spending quality time walking,talking thinking about their past and what the future holds for the both of them.

Marriage is what you make it to be! You can start your marriage off by first asking all the right questions, by securing the both of your life plans. If you select someone for wealth and prestige you may find that his money may secure your future but will not be the key tool in keeping the marriage from suffering human fralities. Selecting "LOVE" is a great way to begin, but know Love alone doesn't pay your bills, be careful that he can meet your needs as well. Many women are suffering from the lack of Sex and so they marry for pleasure and forget that outside of the Matrimony bed, you must live with all his corky ways and flaws. It's better to find more in common than less. For Marriage was intended to become a union and not be abused by personal addictive behaviors.

If you are ready and willing to now become a Virtuous Wife, Make sure you line your thoughts and plans up with God's because he knows,holds and shall become the both of you all future. Congratulations, to our Virtuous Sisters!

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He was hER rOcK and ShE was hIS rIb.............

By: K.THOMAS

HE was Her Rock and SHE was His Rib...........

    Women in our General Society have been swepted away by the Story Book Myth of the Knight and Shining Armour. May be this is for you!

     As a little girl she always dreamed of her prince. Then by fourteen she was introduced to the world of  Boys,and Friends. They were everywhere she went, and some was even her friends. One day she met "HIM" he became her savior and her very first boyfriend. Mom always said your still to young, this boy you met could only do you some harm. But she could not wait her friends cheered her on, His touch, and His Lips and the thought of a first kiss,but after a while that was it!

     Now she was Eighteen, all alone, planning her future because her last boyfriend was gone. She was hurt and a shame still trying to figure her life out. She had dated over the years, but no one special ever appeared. She and her friends always talk about this guy and that guy, planning to try and figure GOD's plan for her. Hoping some day she'd find her Prince, would he come to her on a white chariot or was this just a myth!

     She is  now 25 years old and many of her old friends have moved on, this time she was alone she found her a study Boo. He was more serious so maybe it's time to become a wife. She finally gets to wear his ring, Hoping that she'd never become single again. He chose her to be his wife, because he could see that this women would stand by his side. He felt her tears when she would cry, hoped some day that he would find her. He witnessed her Beauty inside out, this virtuous women had stole his heart.

      He knew when he met her they would be more than friends, HE would be her RocK, and SHE would be his RiB! The Love they shared was stronger than friends. Even though they would fight sometimes but God had a Plan that was bigger than them.  Her touch, her face and the way she wore her hair, No other women could ever compare.

     For he did not want to keep his relationship at the status of just being friends, He kneeled down on his knee and offer his ring. Because HE was her RocK and SHEwas his RiB! She became the mother of all his kids, she cooked and cleaned and made sure his palace was fit for a King.
    
   She would give him bathes and Wash his hair like a Kid, and at night she would make love to him, because HE was her RocK and SHE was his RiB!

   After a long life full of Love and sometimes pain, She never regreted her choice to accept his ring. It was clear that God knew her heart and gave her a Good man without a doubt. The Ring and the Kids was just apart of his plan, her patience and love had finally paid off. She was Blessed and so will you be, if you let the Lord give you, Your ROCK and then you will become his RIB!
    
                                                                                                                      By: K.Thomas

Message: Now if this touch you, leave me a comment after, you wipe your tears...
When we wait on God he never forgets our pain, He surprises you like never before because
his plan shall never end.

            I hope you are encourage women who are virtuous and who are waiting on true Love......


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