WiLL I JuSt GoT tO Be FRee............

        Well Guest "Who" I Have today from the Past Another Oldies but Goodies!
                          "Stephanie Mills" and her song: "FREE"
 

    I want women to know, it's okay to declare your freedom, many women feel that if they are not with a man it's a problem with who they are, but that's not really the truth!  Sometimes we have to be a little selfish and be F_R_E_E  from everything that can hold us back and stop us from moving forward in life.  I am not saying that a Man isn't an important factor but if a woman is alone it's completely okay to live and enjoy your freedom without a man by your side.
  
    It has been times in my own life, when I myself chose to be Free other than being in a relationship, mainly because I didn't feel I had the right person in which I would have been willing to sacrifice my time in order to fulfill a positive relationship. Do I regret it No, because If you know that there is something missing then why place yourself with someone you are not completely happy with!

                         Often times Women will opt for a person who they KNOW can never
make them remotely happy just to say they HAVE a man. But WHAT does the statement "I Have a Man" really mean Nowadays?  Is it he's the man in your life, with a commitment and not a bunch of drama or Is it he's the man you are having Sleeping Parties with?  We as women must understand what we want may not be what we are getting. If you are a women who really want a committed relationship, why do you keep going on endless boring dates? Stop saying things like well "Until Mr. Right Comes" I guess I will kick it with Sam, John, or Mark.  And If you are really sure about what you expect in a man why is it you can't take yourself off the market and wait? Let's Address this as well Sisters, Internet dating is still dating! Instead now you are dating men online other than meeting that same man from the streets so it does count even though many you will never meet. Also Many Women have declared they are not dating but still have a man they are in contact with SOMEWHERE on this planet.  Why do we as women continue to PLAY ourselves?
Or should I say why are we so afraid at the Ideal of being "FREE"?

  What does this word "Free" means not imprisoned or enslaved, not controlled by obligation or the will to another: felt free to go.

 Now the purpose of this Blog is to set the record straight about being "FREE".  Many women who are not in a committed relationship with their Male friends act like they are enslaved and imprisoned to that person while he is running around "Free to go".  This behavior is why many women are unmarried and are chained to a man who will never marry them.  I watched this happen to many of my friends and family they had the "HOLD on a Man syndrome" even when the straps had already burst right before their eyes.  I too have made this mistake but I didn't keep the man, finally I had to return him back to his inhabitation. I hope that if you are reading this blog you began to get the courage to welcome your FREEDOM!

 Freedom comes with many benefits, you can go and come as you please without anyone trying to stop and control you, you have all day to pick one thing whether your hair,nails,shop,wash clothes, take the kids places they probably haven't been only because you couldn't go with worrying about when he will be back, or if you tried to go he would call you or not call you and upset your whole day. You can pick a career,church,friends you want to be surround by instead of always having to do things he like or else you will be banded from alot of fun things you use to enjoy! You can also work on you and get some of your lifelong dreams accomplished where your family and yourself can begin to benefit from. Yes, you may have to give up the passion, for a moment but God will Bless your life in doing so.

 Now if you are with someone who makes you happy for the most part and you enjoy the balance you have in your relationship I don't encourage you to cut them off. But this is for women who are enslaved or imprisoned and have to be controlled by the person they love the most. Plain and simple, It's not a HEALTHY thing to ever love another person more than you love yourself or MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF because LIFE IS A GIFT FROM GOD TO YOU!  No person should be given that amount of Love to withstand a positive relationship!


HOW DOES A POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP LOOK:

* Both people are considered equal
* Both people expectations should be met by one another
* Both people are Committed to one another and not other people
* Both people intention is to help you and not harm you if you do something wrong
* Both people do take for grant you kindness,wisdom, and faithfulness
* Both people agree with each person need acceptable amount of space to pursue their own dreams
* Both people are supportive to one another
* Both people agree to each others life plan, such as child, careers, environment and lifestyles
* Both people respect and have release their past relationships, & friendships with ex's to remain civil
* Both people will take responsibilities serious, such as house work, cars, and share material goods
* Both people take care of the children whether working out of the home or in the home
* Both people are mature enough to raise the children in a sound environment without abuse
* Both people agree and respect the religious upbringing and doesn't hinder their beliefs


If you do not see any of this going on in your relationship you are in an abusive environment and you are being imprisoned and enslaved by another person.  Though for many this list can be continued  but this list really allows you to see why the relationship or friendship is going down the drain because it lacks structure. In everything we do God intended us to live in a structure environment where we can maintain and take care our families without the cares of this life.  Yes, He knows we will have trials and  tribulations and this shall be from the world and it's day to day agenda but it should not be within our homes we live in and if quarreling is their it shouldn't continue to disturb the home live it should cease after the problem is resolved. Our Children should have peace and not have to be a parent at twelve, because the adults are not able to maintain their own responsibilities.

   I recommend you listen to Stephanie Mills video "Free" because she only reminds us that it's nothing wrong with declaring your FREEDOM and making a decision to just be you! This is a right you was given and if you need time to do you, then do so and stop allowing your circumstances to imprison and destroy you!  May your choices lead you to your destiny and purpose here on earth.  Have a Wonderful day Everyone!

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KnOwInG WHo YOu ArE

                                             
                                                 
Hello: Friends,

The Topic "Knowing Who You Are"  is a very common factor for everyday Living!

Making Sense of Who you are! Everyone is always whispering inside someone ear about you as you walk throughout the Halls, or Inside of your Church or While getting into you car, or While you enter a party or special event but what are they saying about YOU?  Isn't that interesting how everybody is sharing their opinions about who you are other than yourself?

 Today is your Day to find out "Why are you So Interesting".  From the beginning of time I really believe that there were what I call "GUPPIES".  A GUPPY searches for Important about other people without backing up the information they've received about others and they use A EAR HUSTLER to go Ask you about the information they heard to get you to confirm there facts. Guppies are the ones who spread the information to the Ear Hustlers. And most of the time a Ear Hustler can be someone you may already know but thing they would never betray you.  If so think again! Many Guppies are always ready to send untimely, incorrect information throughout the airways to try and mess your reputation up and credibility up among others. What I've learned is Guppies Lives in larger environments such as churches,businesses,state agencies,schools, anywhere people are flocked by the numbers there will be a pool of guppies. 

How do they find Ear Hustlers? They find those who are not popular and people who do not know who they are.  People they can use to just plant around a person who they seek to destroy.  And in some cases Ear Hustlers want to obtain popularity and lack their own Independence and they are willing to gain it at any expense and that is how they are selected. The Guppies are always controlled by a GUPPY LEADER who will send the small guppies out to spread the lies and destroy others life once the Ear Hustlers have conducted their assignment! BUT what most "EAR HUSTLERS" do not know they will be the one alone who will take the fall with the person who is being attacked. All the Guppies will swim away, that is why they are never found and still in high demand.  So if you didn't know you do now, there is a Ear Hustler sitting among your group of friends. How I know, Let you do anything stupid you will see how fast that news will travel.

 She's a EAR HUSTLER

            

        She's been sent to get the scoop from you so she can go share it with others! Look at those eyes she been taught not to let on to who she is!

Testimony:  "A Friend and I was talking and she asked how had I achieved a particular goal? I told her "When we are able to get to know who we are, it just makes life a little easier. I begin to recognize what she said to me because this is how she said it: " Whatever you are doing it is noticeable to others"  this statement alone made me realize she was sent by the guppies to find out my Business.  We'll you know I kept it plain and simple!

What came across my mind was this many people don't even know "WHO THEY ARE AND HOW POWERFUL THEY CAN BE TO OTHERS." Below is a set of question you may want to ask yourself because you may have a lot of great qualities but have not become the person you are destined to be!

WHO ARE YOU?
*Are you a Quitter everytime trouble comes your way?
*Is everyone the enemy and not yourself?
*Do the same people from your Childhood still taking up much of your Memory?
*Do you feel intimidated when others people get more attention than you do?
*Do you feel that everyone want you, but you are still not taken?
*Do you feel that everyone else problems are not as worst as yours?
*Do you always get mad when you witness others become successful of get something they want?
*Do you feel like Life has left you behind, nothing ever good happens for you?
*Do you feel like God is not in your corner?
*Do you feel like you've been cheated?
*Do you believe that you have to lie about everything to have friendships with people?
*Do you think you are not attractive?

                                       Change is Necessary..................................

   When a person feels deprived in everyday life matters this is a symbolic sign they have not reached a certain level of independence. Although they may have a Job, and a lot of wonderful things the facts are they cannot do anything without others approval. If this is the case they may go throughout their entire life allowing others to use them by concealing there true identity. God never intended for his people to allow other people to control there existence. In fact His total plan for a believer is to be totally dependent upon him and not man or ourselves. If you are having a problem with identifying who you are look below and see How you should be answering the same set of questions above.
 

KNOWING WHO YOU ARE:
   When we Know who we are we can no longer operate from the same mentality as before! When you can say this Word "YOU" without waivering then you can see things around you changed for you. But when we use the word " I Do Not FEEL" this means we have not gotten the assurance from within to move forward.  One should never rush at making lifelong decisions, but one should never totally depend on others to approve of them.

WE KNOW WHO WE ARE!

*You choose to never Quit until you see the RESULTS YOU WANT TO SEE
*You recognize you can sometimes become your own enemy from TIME TO TIME
*You refuse to hold onto Bad Memories that made you feel sad, and have discovered the New You
*You enjoy watching people because it only gives you new ideals how to step up your game
*You have learn that patience is a virtual, and you are content all by yourself
*You ARE not focused on problems only solutions
*Your familiar that season's come and go, so there's no reason to becoming bitter
*Your choices determines your outcome, you've decide to remain faith no matter what
*You can see evidence of God in Your life, and you know he's still in control
*You are not going to allow your circumstance to keep you down any longer you have stood your course
*You have learned friendships are fading, But GOD is forever by your side
*You have confidence in which you are reflecting beauty wherever you go,because beauty is skin deep

When we are having problems with our identity we will always have doubts about everything. When we know who we are we will always Recognize,Realize and Recommend that we are respected at all times.

Many studies have shown that many people are driven from a lack of fear than confidence. Maybe the answer is "BELIEVING IN WHO YOU, NO MATTER WHAT COMES YOUR WAY" because at the end of the day you are the only one who will live with the choices you've made over the course of your existence. As for others they will only witness what they've seen or heard about you and without out reasonable facts the Guppies of this World will continue to spread untimely and incorrect info to hurt other people but may be if you've been their Ear Hustlers you will find Independence and no longer allow yourself to be tricked into this cesspool of sin. 

I challenge everyone who will read this blog, to embrace "YOU" while you have a chance! And "lean not to your own understanding about everyday life things" If you never take the time to get to know who you are, How will you know what you can believe and what you cannot?

If this blog helped recharged your faith, then leave me a message! I really believe the world have tried to make many people bitter than set them Free. Tell me what you think?

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wHEN a wOMan LoVes A mAn..................

When a Woman Loves a Man.....................

We are going to discover just how deep a Woman's Love can be For her man!
Yesterday, I blogged about:: " When  a Man Loves a Woman" now today I will talk about When a Woman Loves a Man.


Women are very basic, they see a man then they aim to get him! But is this the way it was intended to be?

 God's plan for women is to be considered a help mate to her husband and mother to his children, and wife to her husband. But many women have taken on the role of the man because she can no longer trust the words that come from him when she's the one who is left to carry the weight! WHY because she already knows, had she not loved this man she would not have been left in this situation to raise HIM and the KIDS!


Our Modern day society has adapted to the ideal of women supporting their homes instead of placing the responsibility on the man even if he is no longer in the home. Though she may feel alone and abandon she is still yet forgiving of her man's error for the sake of Love.

When he is in the Home she's always rearranging her schedules to make sure she is by his side when He needs her the most.  As women many have the desire as EVE did when in the garden as she ate of the fruit, she could have easily chose to eat the entire fruit alone, but No, she went and offered her husband a piece as well. My point is women are always sharing and including their spouses or man in things even when it was for them to enjoy alone. It's funny how the serpent SUGGESTED that she eat from the tree first. But scriptures, only addressed what happened after she and him ate from the tree!

But how do we know if anything would have happened if Adam hadn't joined in?   Just food for your thought. I believe maybe Satan wanted to see what was going to happen himself, and when she ate of the fruit she didn't act like anything was different until the both had ate from the tree.This example alone showed the Love God had for Women, because were made to help our mate. He knew she had been mislead by satan, and at the sametime her husband had not taken the lead and through this very event Women have been called to become independent in their thinking!

Which has cause many women to feel if there spouses are making way less monies she rather help him think he's still doing better than her. Women who are in love with their man never hold back. They will help him when he's in need without seeing that man playing them. I have seen women who love their man, buy clothes, shoes, make car notes, by furniture, clean the men house, help him get a better job, let him stay at her place when he lost his own, let him drive her car, and give him money when he is down on his luck! Many Women will offer their prize possessions for the sake of Love.

She will selfishly not bare children even if she's always wanted children for herself just because he does want any. She will change her friends or let them all go for him, she will slender down, make beauty changes, add implants to area's of her body He wish she had more for him to enough and correctly have surgeries which can jeopardize her own health for the sake of Love.

And if her family is not supportive in her choice to be with him, she'll leave them alone, for the sake of loving her man. Women for many years, have sacrifice many things to have a man be with them!

I will tell you many men would not risk many pleasures,unless they are in Love with you! But even then a Woman Love out beats his Efforts.

Men don't leave or write off their families, even if their mother don't like her. He may have little to do with them and will still blame the woman for the fact his mother doesn't really care for her. And if he really want children and his women doesn't he will find someone who does want to father his children, he will not end friendships because many of his friend disapprove of who he is dating. Nor will he offer his possessions up freely unless he feels guilty just for the sake of  Love. He will never freely forgive you for making more money unless the extra is spent on him. He will rarely give his house keys out and allow a women only his girlfriend to come by and wash, watch tv, and stay at his home as much as they like unless she's past many of his test! He will not easily go under the knife to correct his body part only if that is what he chose. And he will not lose weight unless he's single again, he will go to the gym more as a recreation for himself. And if he's a single dad, he will never abandon his children he will become resentful if the woman he loves doesn't welcome them like they were her own. And you will not drive his car all the time instead he may help you find your own. Let's Face it, Men are way more selfish than women.


Women are the bomb! We have a deeper desire to be loved and were not afraid to let some of our desires go to have a man's love. Even though I personally don't believe you should have to make all these changes to have a man's love, I must not ignore many women will do anything to have a man's love.  My heart goes out to the many women who have allowed themselves to be tricked and those who have denied themselves from experiencing life on a greater level. This blog is only created to show a Woman's love for a man.

I hope you enjoyed this blog and if so leave me a comment! Have a Wonderful day.....

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I aLwAys LoVE mY MaMa..............

Hello Friends,

My Blog is a Contribute to All the Mothers in this world, whether you are the biological mother,Stepmother, Grandmother, Foster mother, WHATSOEVER Title you carry, Let this day be a Blessing to you by God first and then through the people who you spend your day with! 


Well, I just thought I'd have someone remind you just how special you are to them! Even if Your family is not be able to fly near you, but these men are going to tell you why most kids really "Love their Mama". So this is your gift from me to all the Mama's! And Thank you "The Intruders" for thinking so Highly about you Mother! We can still enjoy your music......

Happy Mother's Day!!!!!! Happy Mother's Day!!!!!! Happy Mother's Day!!!!!! Happy Mother's Day!!!!!


          Now Go And Enjoy the Rest of Your Day...................

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ARE YOU IN DENIAL?

Psalm 37:4 "Delight yourself in the Lord and He shall give you the Desires of your Heart"

Are your desires driven through deception?

Today I want to say if you have been told you was promised a million dollars and it's always been a desire of your own to be wealthy but later you find out it was only a plot for you to pay into so that you will make someone else rich! What would you do?

My guess you would think before you leap. But this spirit of deception is present everywhere! And even though many have a good ideal how they are being deceived but fail to stop this deception for others, May be it's their desire is worth more than the deception. Did you know your name has been added to someone's hit list of deception? Mainly because they can smell your own desperation. Maybe we must learn that you don't have to fall for the madness every single time unless your promise is worthless to you!

Many Believer's will openly say "GOD said", he will grant me the desires of my own heart,but the question is have you DELIGHTED yourself in him? Have you made GOD your Priority for today? Have you utter up any praise or said thank you LOrd at least twice today in other to show your gratefulness for his Love shown unto you!

Are maybe your to busy trying to become your own potter and you want him to become your clay. Perhaps this is where your denial begin! A lot of people can not distinguish between what is hidden and what is not. So with this alone you are never qualified to be the Potter! Yes your education have bought you a name and position but their are area's in your life you can't help yourself and many are mad and disgusted by it!


How and why does God stops Deception:
One of God's Glorious character is to warn us, he urges us in scriptures to do not be anxious for "Anything" because most of the time as a Human, We all See what we want to see and leave what is not any interest to us at the door. Next, God will not allow you to pursue the promise, but the wisdom to the promise. Have you ever heard God say to you "DON"T DO THAT" when you could have slaughtered your enemies? He will always try and keep your physical hands from trying to become the POTTER he only wants you to be the HIS Clay! A Potter always protect his fragile surfaces, because this is where HIS best definition begins. Though the situation may begin all messed up doesn't mean necessarily the master piece cannot be revamped into it's intended purpose! God always begin with rough end. He sculptures the lives of humans who lives was broken....

        "Perhaps your life is broken and you are in need of a Potter"  His name is "JESUS"......


God's Purpose:
In our Scripture God's warn the believer that even though they sing songs of joy, love to him and strive to walk upright before him, they to shall be sheep waiting to be slaughtered if they are not prepared by his word. Because he knows what you do not know, He see's what you don't see. And he tells you openly whom your attacks will be centered by your adversary Satan! He then encourages the believer to get knowledgeable of his adversary as he is with you, learn his attributes and watch his ways! For if you look long enough you will find his plot can two be destroyed. But you have to see with your spiritual eyes! If you have been deceived lately maybe you better order some spiritual lens,immediately. Sorry to just say it for what it is but you need HELP! You need a Savior who cannot only heal you, but can protect your fragile edges as the Potter can certain do.  For God Specialize in showing us the truth, and if we can not receive it, he will offer it in many ways until you can want no more. But many of us, God uses our deception to shape our Rough Edges.

God will Protect your Rough Edges:
People have many rough edges and prejudices which delays many promises! What are the rough edges? Your perception of what is done to you and what is for you. Many are driven away by their own lustful desires when a person is being equally nice to them, they immediately think this person wants them. Sad but it's the truth. Many women have a poor perception of themselves. Many have been abused by what they felt was good and later found it was not good in it for them. Didn't your MOMMA ever tell you everything that Glitter isn't necessarily gold, some are just gold-plated!

I have notice many Believer's live in total denial, Though the word of God tries to correct our thinking, Many of are still driven by the desire to be or become. It's nothing wrong with becoming a great person with a great name people respect, but when we are in denial in how we are being perceived by others that is where denial begins! Remember less than half people you know will ever see you the way you,really want them too.

Solution:
We should never try and walk in another's footsteps! For the shoes you already wear need to be laced up from time to time, we all lose our steps and sometimes fall from our place, but I have learned that the steps I have been given to walk were designed for me. So I settled this longtime ago, I will not try and be someone's else best masterpiece, I have made it my mission to only become the best I can be. If we as women begin to find a happy place in where we are, we can see the provisions in which God has made for us to enjoy! We don't always have to wear the same hats as our sisters to enjoy the same benefits.

If you are in denial ask God to give you a clear perception to what you are trying to do or become. Ask him to guide your every footstep as his increase your space. Stop always asking for the solutions of others whom may not understand where it is your headed. If we learn to allow God to order our footsteps he will bring those who we need into our pathways.

You are NOBODY'S FOOL... For many Women desires have been warped by their own decisions... It is time we begin to stop allowing people to dictate our self-worth and begin to make ourselves a priority to the equation as we begin to seek love,friendships,courtships,business deals,ministries and spiritual positions. God's plan was for us to be informed than misinformed. Forgive those who have tried to be a hinderous unto you and move forward so you may have properly time to gain your promise which was designed for you!

I hope this message encourage those who have been misleaded and have been in a state of denial. For it is the hand of the evil one to deceive Gods people, But the hands of GOD brings correction.  God Bless each and everyone of you..

             "Let not your Heart be troubled because your Father in heaven knows what you have need for"




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ArE yOu ReAdY tO BeCome A wIFe?

Are you ready to become A Wife?

 Does the Vision of Marriage have you in bondage with the reality of Who you shall be............

To many women want the fairytale but do not have a clue to what is required within a marriage. If you are seeking God for your mate please be clear there are many things you should already possess before entering into a matrimony relationship. I have witnessed many women who are more in a race down the aisle not for the gift of being in love, but only so she can have the benefits which come with being a wife. 

 The First Key to a Healthy Marriage is Love, it's where it all began and Love is what shall keep you connected! Second is Faith, in yourself and your mate, Third Respect to Love each other inspite of your flaws, Fourth Equally Yoked to one another by same interest and desires for your future. If you have the basic fundamental of what it takes to become a Virtuous Wife, You Shall be headed for a Successful Marriage. But what can become a Deal breaker may be Religious Views. If you are walking with God before he comes along, it's vital that he doesn't hinder you but become apart of the plan GOD's already planned for you! Understand Women tend to change their views,focus and achievements over time.

Women between the Age of  (25-35) all believe that Love is all they need. She believes foolishly that once she take on his name she will never have to worry about anything, Her desire is to please him, and become the Mother of his children. She also knows she doesn't have much to offer back, so she may choose to place her plans on hold to help him become the main bread winner. And she may decide to end all her past friendships because her image of marriage is based around being his biggest supporter and anyone who could get in the way with her plan is now their enemy. 

Women between the Age of (36-44) are caught up with trying to become a mother and her focus of marriage is based on creating a family. Her Love for him is good but now that she's feeling like her biological clock has been ticking she is more selfish and have the thoughts of becoming a mother at the top of her agenda. Her husband has become her human punching bag, She will fault him easily for everything, from losing the toothpaste cap, failing to pull the toilet seat down, from eating all her snacks up etc... She is just bothered by his existence, and have placed total blame on him why her life isn't perfect.

Women between the Age of (45-55) is content with herself, and having a companion,to travel,talk and make love too. Now that her children are adult age, her life is based around what she wants for herself. Her plans are to encourage her children but know surround herself around new things! She has become each one of their children personal reminder of how her husband and her place certain values in them. Her husband is no longer the LOVE of her life he is her life. They are able to rekindle a love who have suffered many changes and may have withered many storms together. She is more at peace with him and where their marriage is headed.

Women between the Age of (56-Up) are ready for her legacy and teachings to be placed in the hearts of her grandchildren. She is busy trying to encourage her children who are not married yet to find wives, and has her eyes on watch for descent son-in-laws. Her time is measured around being a wife, hobbies and recreations. If she is a healthy women, her husband along with herself are trying to treasure there moments.. They are about spending quality time walking,talking thinking about their past and what the future holds for the both of them.

Marriage is what you make it to be! You can start your marriage off by first asking all the right questions, by securing the both of your life plans. If you select someone for wealth and prestige you may find that his money may secure your future but will not be the key tool in keeping the marriage from suffering human fralities. Selecting "LOVE" is a great way to begin, but know Love alone doesn't pay your bills, be careful that he can meet your needs as well. Many women are suffering from the lack of Sex and so they marry for pleasure and forget that outside of the Matrimony bed, you must live with all his corky ways and flaws. It's better to find more in common than less. For Marriage was intended to become a union and not be abused by personal addictive behaviors.

If you are ready and willing to now become a Virtuous Wife, Make sure you line your thoughts and plans up with God's because he knows,holds and shall become the both of you all future. Congratulations, to our Virtuous Sisters!

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I'M So InTo yOu..........................

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You Paid your Due's, Right from the start, What a Price to Pay.....ay  ay, 

 I'm So in Love with You, I don't know what I am going to do.......

     Hello Ladies, and Everyone, Today my Spirit has transcend on a Journey of LOVE.... This Video is a oldie but A GOODIE.. Mr. Peabo Bryson, spells how many men back in the day would really open up and allow a women to enjoy the best side of them. They weren't so eager to trade you up, if you were a good women in their book. Where did this Kind of Love for Women Go?  Those were the days, when you would go on a date and that was all it meant for some at least. But for those who wish to hear a man say those words, be encouraged there are Men who still feel this way about a women. If you are a Virtuous Women you will allow God to pick him and not yourself.

                                            Do you believe Our God can really be into you?

If not, please think again,,, I totally believe God is Pleased with Many Women of Zion, But they Lack a sense of intimacy with him because they only can see him as a father and not much more. But Scriptures says he is ALL THINGS to them that truly are believing in the faith! If you are lonely he is your comforter, if you are sick, He is your Healer.  So you can depend on his unfailing Love towards you. 

So tell me why do you lack faith that he is a rewarder to them who diligently seek him? It's a new season and even though many of you have been in a waiting season, the promises are still there. We just have to trust on God until he is ready for us to have what he want us to have. So what shall I do while I wait on The LORD? You fall in Love with Him, and allow GOD to Help him find you, so that he can satisfy what God's already started in you! I can tell SOMETHING is UP Because "LOVE" IS IN THE AIR.......

We have been swepted away by all the modern day Love songs, and forgetting that the true Essence of Love was built from back in the day where being Wholesome and pure was a good thing. Do you want to know my take?  GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING...

"By  His GLORY He shall create A Union of Love"

In his own Character is the Essence of his LOVE for all his creation. He Love you whether you love him or not, but he will invite you to Journey with him as he show you what True Love really is!  For many has accepted the Love he offers through the Journey, But there have been many who rather find it for themselves.

But for them who have shared in his Love, knows it only gets sweeter and sweeter! It's not like Man's Love. For God's Love you can depend on, through the good and the bad. On your best days and your worst days his Love shall always surround you! If you are still with me, Say "GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING".......

 I blog about the Love of Man and the Love of God because something is in my heart! I may not yet know all the details or the entire direction in which it shall enter but one thing I do sense GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING!! And I believe I'm not the only one who can feel a shift and change of Wind coming their way.

 I can feel intimacy in the words that are shared in this song! Maybe It's just me, But God will us any tool to get your attention in order to show his fullness in your life! I believe GOD hand is over me and many women here who have been pregnant with a child, And Morning has come!  Though I awake early I hear a love song, singing to me as I find my way throughout my day. It's a Love song, which is sung from a Father's Love to me! No more can I reject his Love, for it has kept me safe over the years! I can sense his warm sweet embrace saying the words peace. Call me Old School, But GOD IS DEFINITELY UP TO SOMETHING!

If you are out there no matter how near or far, God have allowed our paths to reach because you and I can feel the wind blowing across our lips! We can feel his presence laying down beside us while we sleep. we can smell his sweet aroma everywhere we go, It makes us to want more and more of him! For he  have taught me I am never alone, as long as He carry me through this Journey of Love with him!.  Thank you God for always showing yourself true in my life!

GOD BLESS YOU WHO ARE ON A JOURNEY OF LOVE TOO!!!

 

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He was hER rOcK and ShE was hIS rIb.............

By: K.THOMAS

HE was Her Rock and SHE was His Rib...........

    Women in our General Society have been swepted away by the Story Book Myth of the Knight and Shining Armour. May be this is for you!

     As a little girl she always dreamed of her prince. Then by fourteen she was introduced to the world of  Boys,and Friends. They were everywhere she went, and some was even her friends. One day she met "HIM" he became her savior and her very first boyfriend. Mom always said your still to young, this boy you met could only do you some harm. But she could not wait her friends cheered her on, His touch, and His Lips and the thought of a first kiss,but after a while that was it!

     Now she was Eighteen, all alone, planning her future because her last boyfriend was gone. She was hurt and a shame still trying to figure her life out. She had dated over the years, but no one special ever appeared. She and her friends always talk about this guy and that guy, planning to try and figure GOD's plan for her. Hoping some day she'd find her Prince, would he come to her on a white chariot or was this just a myth!

     She is  now 25 years old and many of her old friends have moved on, this time she was alone she found her a study Boo. He was more serious so maybe it's time to become a wife. She finally gets to wear his ring, Hoping that she'd never become single again. He chose her to be his wife, because he could see that this women would stand by his side. He felt her tears when she would cry, hoped some day that he would find her. He witnessed her Beauty inside out, this virtuous women had stole his heart.

      He knew when he met her they would be more than friends, HE would be her RocK, and SHE would be his RiB! The Love they shared was stronger than friends. Even though they would fight sometimes but God had a Plan that was bigger than them.  Her touch, her face and the way she wore her hair, No other women could ever compare.

     For he did not want to keep his relationship at the status of just being friends, He kneeled down on his knee and offer his ring. Because HE was her RocK and SHEwas his RiB! She became the mother of all his kids, she cooked and cleaned and made sure his palace was fit for a King.
    
   She would give him bathes and Wash his hair like a Kid, and at night she would make love to him, because HE was her RocK and SHE was his RiB!

   After a long life full of Love and sometimes pain, She never regreted her choice to accept his ring. It was clear that God knew her heart and gave her a Good man without a doubt. The Ring and the Kids was just apart of his plan, her patience and love had finally paid off. She was Blessed and so will you be, if you let the Lord give you, Your ROCK and then you will become his RIB!
    
                                                                                                                      By: K.Thomas

Message: Now if this touch you, leave me a comment after, you wipe your tears...
When we wait on God he never forgets our pain, He surprises you like never before because
his plan shall never end.

            I hope you are encourage women who are virtuous and who are waiting on true Love......


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Everybody Plays the Fool......

So You was played as a Fool..........

 Hello Sisters, I don't know why but My Thoughts have been drawn to many back in the day songs!
This Man from "Main Ingredient" Leaves us a Very valuable message to Live by!  He show us how
"EVERYBODY PLAYS THE FOOL"  boy did he ever know how truth this one statement made
throughout generations to generations.

He reminds us how many people are hurt today, because someone chose to make them a fool. MAYBE you was someone's fool. Truly We all know how it feels, and how NOBODY want to be played as a fool. But believe it or not, Everyone shall be someone else's fool. There is "NO EXCEPTIONS to the rule.

WHAT rule is that? It's "LOVE".  Many have said, Love me soft and Love me gentle but please don't play me as a fool....

HOW many times have your HEART been Broken?  1,,,2,,,,3,,,   and so on...........

Don't try and make yourself look like it's never happened to you, if not it can and most cases it will, but his statement is true;  "There is no promise, that the one you LOVE is going to LOVE YOU!!

           So no matter how many roses you buy, how many meals you eat together, no matter
           how many times you kiss, they may not be in LOVE WiTH YOU.

But let's get his full message, He begins to tell the story off by encouraging a friend  he knew who was hurting from a painful break up and they didn't want to face the fact....that the one they didn't love them.... because TRUE Love hurts! He encourages them how "EVERYBODY PLAYS THE FOOL,SOMETIMES.......

For LOVE has no grants! And when your heart is broken No doctor can write you a prescription for
a Broken heart...  All you can do is sit around and think...

What I have learn that we can only feel the emotions of the heart when "YOU ARE IN LOVE"
and when your heart is Broken....

When your not in love you may like someone, but you don't invest everything into them because you like them instead of LOVE them.

        For many will try and hurt you because they don't understand the magnitude of
                                                                     LOVE.............

It's Valentine's Day, and Many Couples will plan their day to spend with the one whom they love.  They will offer Gifts, Surprises,Candlelight Dinners, Breakfast in Bed, and Some will go all the way out and shut down restaurants for that special someone.  Keep in mind they do it all because of this one word  called "LOVE".

Stores around the USA will make BIG BUCK off an Emotion and many will dig deep to feed it's
intent. But what is the lesson to be learned "LOVE is not brought, or Stolen  But it's Given Freely
to the one's who are in LOVE....

But, For those who are hurting and are in great pain, who have ran into someone who cared little
about the pain they caused you, to those who planned for this day and was dumped weeks
days, or moments before it came, for those who is still holding onto grudges, and have plot to
get even with the one you love, for those who feel like life isn't worth living. Remember his
Words, " EVERYBODY PLAYS THE FOOL" sometimes..." NO EXCEPTIONS TO THE RULES"

                                     Biggest Key: "USE YOUR HEART LIKE A TOOL"

This means you must be careful who you share your LOVE with! Many will say how can I do this?  "Guard your Heart"  Many people meet on Monday and fall in Love
on Tuesday.  Love is Beautiful, yes, I will say that, But love can be harmful if you don't use
it in the right way! 

Below is a list of ways to Guard your heart..................
PRAY TO GOD TO REVEAL THIS PERSON TO YOU, INSIDE OUT...........Then obey what he tells you....
1. never do for someone what they would not do for you.
2. take your time, don't rush Love. It will find you...
3. start off slow and easy, learn all you need to know first.
4. make them take you on dates to outdoor places see if they will treat you special.
5. if you supsect anything that is not pleasing in your eyesight. call it quits early on!


There is no formula for the heart, Infact we in most cases can't really choose who we will love
but we can learn to guard our heart.  For everyone who says they Love you, tell them to show you and see how fast they may disappear.

Love is forever changing, Our World doesn't value True Love anymore, for they Love themselves more than others. Why because it hurts! Nobody wants to be a fool......

If you are single and want LOVE learn how to Love yourself first and True Love will find you...
Look around you there are always signs of Love, it doesn't always have to be found in someone
Special.
May everyone be Blessed by all the Love In the Air.......

I hope you are inspired to wait on true love, because it will come looking for you....
Happy Valentine's Day......

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