He was hER rOcK and ShE was hIS rIb.............

By: K.THOMAS

HE was Her Rock and SHE was His Rib...........

    Women in our General Society have been swepted away by the Story Book Myth of the Knight and Shining Armour. May be this is for you!

     As a little girl she always dreamed of her prince. Then by fourteen she was introduced to the world of  Boys,and Friends. They were everywhere she went, and some was even her friends. One day she met "HIM" he became her savior and her very first boyfriend. Mom always said your still to young, this boy you met could only do you some harm. But she could not wait her friends cheered her on, His touch, and His Lips and the thought of a first kiss,but after a while that was it!

     Now she was Eighteen, all alone, planning her future because her last boyfriend was gone. She was hurt and a shame still trying to figure her life out. She had dated over the years, but no one special ever appeared. She and her friends always talk about this guy and that guy, planning to try and figure GOD's plan for her. Hoping some day she'd find her Prince, would he come to her on a white chariot or was this just a myth!

     She is  now 25 years old and many of her old friends have moved on, this time she was alone she found her a study Boo. He was more serious so maybe it's time to become a wife. She finally gets to wear his ring, Hoping that she'd never become single again. He chose her to be his wife, because he could see that this women would stand by his side. He felt her tears when she would cry, hoped some day that he would find her. He witnessed her Beauty inside out, this virtuous women had stole his heart.

      He knew when he met her they would be more than friends, HE would be her RocK, and SHE would be his RiB! The Love they shared was stronger than friends. Even though they would fight sometimes but God had a Plan that was bigger than them.  Her touch, her face and the way she wore her hair, No other women could ever compare.

     For he did not want to keep his relationship at the status of just being friends, He kneeled down on his knee and offer his ring. Because HE was her RocK and SHEwas his RiB! She became the mother of all his kids, she cooked and cleaned and made sure his palace was fit for a King.
    
   She would give him bathes and Wash his hair like a Kid, and at night she would make love to him, because HE was her RocK and SHE was his RiB!

   After a long life full of Love and sometimes pain, She never regreted her choice to accept his ring. It was clear that God knew her heart and gave her a Good man without a doubt. The Ring and the Kids was just apart of his plan, her patience and love had finally paid off. She was Blessed and so will you be, if you let the Lord give you, Your ROCK and then you will become his RIB!
    
                                                                                                                      By: K.Thomas

Message: Now if this touch you, leave me a comment after, you wipe your tears...
When we wait on God he never forgets our pain, He surprises you like never before because
his plan shall never end.

            I hope you are encourage women who are virtuous and who are waiting on true Love......


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BaTe Or MaTe?

This is a Call to the Emergency Line...... For Another Virtuous Women.......

   911 to HER rescue,  for another Virtuous Women  who is waiting for her ring..............................

HA,HA,HA........

 Sad as it may appear, day after day many Virtuous Women are being led astray and are in need of God's Rescue...  Why? Because they have been told it's better to wait around for the Ring, thanWait on GOD for A Mate!!

Yes it's true! Many of Our Women are in relationships, with men who have been making all types of promises that have not yet ever came to pass. Year after year, though her girlfriends,family and Co-worker's urge her to move on with her life, and let that Zero go, she continues to pat her foot at the alter.

Every dream of him and her at the alter is merely delayed by false promises and the only one is truly benefiting from the arrangement is HIM. His story is none other than the so called "Provisions" plan he is so call making to ensure them a prosperous future. Wow, How many times have we heard that one without ever seeing the manifestations of the provision! lol......

Is this the kind of man you wish to MARRY? are you willing to get married to a person who can take up to several years to make one Decision? Do you really have to be rich before you marry?

If you are in this category of Women, You need to tell him the "Waiting game is OVER"!!
I have so many friends who have allowed themselves to settle for men in which they had
nothing to offer them but passion. And even though passion feels good,But it doesn't pay the bills,and will never fully satisfy a relationship! It's only meant to last for a moment... After the moment it ends, you are back to where you begin!

It only leads you back without a ring! Huh.....

Does this sounds like anyone you know?

Many women can relate because SHE has been in this position by far too many times! Infact, Many Women have begin to believe the many stories about the MARTIMONY BED before SHE Weds! She have come to a notation that she better know what she's getting before she signs on the dotted line. Not so Funny huh, but after she takes the bate she still ends up without a mate!

Too many women are falling for the bate, They are allowing themselves to be bated in by their men and all his string of promises! Everytime she finally gets enough of air to resuscitate he bates her back in all over again. Funny thing what keeps her waiting is the Hope he'll finally give in an Marry her someday.

 Now, I will not say she'll never get her Ring, But I will say this She may have to wait a number of years, before she get the ring she may have could have been wearing by then. Even if  it wasn't the man she extended it to be from. There are times when a Women must began to count the cost of her Sin. She cannot allow a man to bring her life to a tragic end.

There Is A Big chances by the time you receive the ring, it's not worth, what you will receive in the end. You may do better to walk away and Wait on The LORD to send you who your heart has longed for.

Though I cannot offer solid advice,because each scenario may be different, but it's clear if you are in the waiting game, you better be clear to what you are getting for the bate Many women have come to the very end of a totally dysfunctional relationship and have learn that they do not even LOVE the man and will still marry him and risk a chance at True Love.

Then when Her marriage becomes impossible to be in, she uses her problems and pains against, the very people in the beginning who advise her to wait. Does this sound like anyone you know?

I don't want to throw the HAY at anyone, but it's clear that many Virtuous Women are being played like never before, some are very Bless to escape some of the pitfalls which was trying to overtake them, but there are still numerous of them that are being destroyed daily.

What is a Solution?

Virtuous Women, are under the attack of the enemy, she must learn which territory is her own.  If you are for GOD be for GOD, If you are for the World than be for the World. You cannot afford to stand in the middle. If she continues to leave her position without  GOD's Protection she will be slaugther by the attack.  If you are looking for Love, Look no further, GOD's Love supercedes a relationship which is built with false promises!

Learn how to get to know who YOU are, that is where it begins! Take the necessary steps to built a relationship with YOU. Learn what it is that will make you satisfied with you! I believe the best way to begin to be in a relationship with yourself, is by being in a Relationship with Christ!  He will begin to show you the real person inside of you and not only the shell your soul lives in. He will also reveal and heal your past hurts and pain, and give your life new meaning again!

Read your Word, for it teaches us how we must conduct our ways,thoughts and position. It's shows key applications to what will happen and what will not happen if we do not abide in his word. Each Story is a dialogue to strengthen your faith for each challenge. Although it may not be so easily to understand in the beginning but as you use the reference and text it shall continue to encourage and strengthen your faith for Spiritual Maturity and Growth.

Words to Women........

Women can have what they say, they can have a house,car,fine jewelry,beautiful clothes, spa day's, getaways, retreats, and for some they can have Men and Children before they wed, but what's most important is that they understand the responsiblities which lye ahead of their choices. Make decisions which are not only a quick fix to a temporary problem, but is the answer to a long lasting future.

                         It's Your Choice to take the Bate or Wait....................................................

I hope this encourage Women to look within themselves before making a lifelong decision....If you enjoyed what you've read come and join us as we discuss many different topics and feel free to post your comments!


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