ArE yOu ReAdY tO BeCome A wIFe?

Are you ready to become A Wife?

 Does the Vision of Marriage have you in bondage with the reality of Who you shall be............

To many women want the fairytale but do not have a clue to what is required within a marriage. If you are seeking God for your mate please be clear there are many things you should already possess before entering into a matrimony relationship. I have witnessed many women who are more in a race down the aisle not for the gift of being in love, but only so she can have the benefits which come with being a wife. 

 The First Key to a Healthy Marriage is Love, it's where it all began and Love is what shall keep you connected! Second is Faith, in yourself and your mate, Third Respect to Love each other inspite of your flaws, Fourth Equally Yoked to one another by same interest and desires for your future. If you have the basic fundamental of what it takes to become a Virtuous Wife, You Shall be headed for a Successful Marriage. But what can become a Deal breaker may be Religious Views. If you are walking with God before he comes along, it's vital that he doesn't hinder you but become apart of the plan GOD's already planned for you! Understand Women tend to change their views,focus and achievements over time.

Women between the Age of  (25-35) all believe that Love is all they need. She believes foolishly that once she take on his name she will never have to worry about anything, Her desire is to please him, and become the Mother of his children. She also knows she doesn't have much to offer back, so she may choose to place her plans on hold to help him become the main bread winner. And she may decide to end all her past friendships because her image of marriage is based around being his biggest supporter and anyone who could get in the way with her plan is now their enemy. 

Women between the Age of (36-44) are caught up with trying to become a mother and her focus of marriage is based on creating a family. Her Love for him is good but now that she's feeling like her biological clock has been ticking she is more selfish and have the thoughts of becoming a mother at the top of her agenda. Her husband has become her human punching bag, She will fault him easily for everything, from losing the toothpaste cap, failing to pull the toilet seat down, from eating all her snacks up etc... She is just bothered by his existence, and have placed total blame on him why her life isn't perfect.

Women between the Age of (45-55) is content with herself, and having a companion,to travel,talk and make love too. Now that her children are adult age, her life is based around what she wants for herself. Her plans are to encourage her children but know surround herself around new things! She has become each one of their children personal reminder of how her husband and her place certain values in them. Her husband is no longer the LOVE of her life he is her life. They are able to rekindle a love who have suffered many changes and may have withered many storms together. She is more at peace with him and where their marriage is headed.

Women between the Age of (56-Up) are ready for her legacy and teachings to be placed in the hearts of her grandchildren. She is busy trying to encourage her children who are not married yet to find wives, and has her eyes on watch for descent son-in-laws. Her time is measured around being a wife, hobbies and recreations. If she is a healthy women, her husband along with herself are trying to treasure there moments.. They are about spending quality time walking,talking thinking about their past and what the future holds for the both of them.

Marriage is what you make it to be! You can start your marriage off by first asking all the right questions, by securing the both of your life plans. If you select someone for wealth and prestige you may find that his money may secure your future but will not be the key tool in keeping the marriage from suffering human fralities. Selecting "LOVE" is a great way to begin, but know Love alone doesn't pay your bills, be careful that he can meet your needs as well. Many women are suffering from the lack of Sex and so they marry for pleasure and forget that outside of the Matrimony bed, you must live with all his corky ways and flaws. It's better to find more in common than less. For Marriage was intended to become a union and not be abused by personal addictive behaviors.

If you are ready and willing to now become a Virtuous Wife, Make sure you line your thoughts and plans up with God's because he knows,holds and shall become the both of you all future. Congratulations, to our Virtuous Sisters!

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"RuBy vs.DiAmOnD"

Did you know a Ruby can be worth more than a Diamond?


Today as I begin to think of the True Worth of a Virtuous Women I begin to look over my Scriptures and I was able to notice that even though she was considered a Ruby, but she stood far above other rubies. My thoughts became how did she become a "BETTER RUBY".

I was challenged to speak about her because, as I attempt to deliver a message to the Virtuous Women she must first understand her Worth is not to man but to a RIGHTEOUS GOD, and So "HE IS". When you are a Diamond many will say "She considered a DIAMOND in the rough", This means she was considered the best in the bunch. She have a shine and glitter about herself, that many of the other beautifully cut diamonds just did not present. Although  she may have be skillfully cut as many diamond are, even though her craftsmenship, showed perfection but her clarity was not Radiant! Many men will  choose a Diamond over a Ruby because of the Glitter, But once he gets her home and have played with her he would have wished he chose a Ruby. Because she is skilled in many ways a diamond isn't. For she forever and not only until her glow no longer exist! Have you ever dated a Man and the relationship ended, and you seen him with another women later and once you seen, heard word of mouth about her, all you could say about her is WOW?

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When a Virtuous Women is presented to her man and to other that is the affect she carries! Because she is a "RUBY" not a diamond. Get that correct! Though she may not sparkle in the same way as a glittery diamond but when you see her finish it's of  Splendor and Royalty!  Many who spot her knows she is in a class all by herself, and they can always tell her difference because of the Color she radiates, because she is  a blood sacrifice. Her Flair,Charm and style radiates and shine far above all the diamonds and other rubies in any room. Her beauty reflects the Covenant of A Holy Sacrifice with her Creators finish. Her worth always hold a Sentimental Value, which never loses it's Worth! And She the (RUBY) is always placed in the Center of many diamonds and stones.

What makes the Ruby better than a Diamond?

A Ruby holds and possess many different qualities that Diamonds do not possess. She is a smart,trustworthy friend to them who need her. Her relationship with God is not only held on a Sunday but throughout her week she keeps his ways and decrees always present before "her own".  She does not try to out shine another ruby because she allows her God to make her into the finishing stone of his choice. Not many women can say they have surrender themselves totally unto Christ without trying to imitate other diamonds Instead of  allowing CHRIST  to make her a better RUBY himself.

 " Although "Marilyn Monroe", states a "Diamond is a Girl's Best friend",  May be She was never informed that a "RUBY" was the Blood between His own Sacrifice!

For her song,became the means to many women pleasure, the her glow lost it's true essence... Because a RUBY does not hang out in a Rough, For her beauty is Embedded in the Rough. How many diamonds can leave that kind of finish?

The (RUBY) Workmenship which is always placed in the preparation before her entrance must always be sculptured into beauty because she is that one stone that offers that rare quality of "Royalty".

GOD particularly speaks of the Ruby because it's through her workmenship you can presumble her beauty! That is what makes her so special, HIS Workmenship on the "Virtuous Women Daily". As she rise to partake a new day GOD's heavenly presence in her life, His hands,His thoughts are always surrounding her beauty! She is being shaped,crowned and finished with many forms of his wisdom. He teaches her not to settle to be just another ruby but allow your "WORTH" and Standards to shine higher than other plain old rubies. As she allow HIM to cut,shape, and crown her she begin to notice her finish is far more radiant than her friends and sisters because she's been Cut from a different Angle. 

THEY who see her eyes are amazed by her beauty and qualities she possess because her finish shows life long abilities placed on the inside of her. When she is around other rubies, and diamonds she stand out far more, not saying that they don't hold their own glitter, But they can tell she is His Bride of His Royalty.
Many rubies and diamonds tend to hate her flow of radiance wherever she goes. They will make it hard for her because she will out shine them everytime. She lights up any dark and dim room, and many will say she a snob, but her Father have placed her worth far above many other rubies because of the brilliance and work he put into her before presenting her before a crowd.

My Question to YOU, ARe you a RUby or A DiAmond?
Do you have that rare quality that radiance as a RUBY? or  Do you Shine so Bright that while others look at you over and over your radiance loses that DIAMOND Glow?

             "Diamonds may be a Girl's Best Friend, But A Ruby is a Girl's True Love"

Perhaps, Today you will begin to seek GOD like never before, May be you do see yourself as a Diamond, But you have to ask yourself is a Diamond in a Rough good enough?  How do I know which am I? GOOD question, A Diamond will always be Jealous of  The (RUBY) not rubies! So if when you see or spot a (RUBY) and you find your face turning all different types of ways, because  her presence is so radiant, and you can no longer stand it, "You are a "Diamond".  IF You are a "Ruby" You don't mine if a Beautiful Diamond is present because Diamonds radiates from the head (RUBY). For her Beauty is not shown only on the outside but if you look deep the essence of her True Beauty is from within!

That is why from the time she walks in a room or leaves a room she is talked about everytime she radiates throughout the room. For light can never reflect or capture her true beauty that is why She the (RUBY) is So Darn Hard to find!!


I hope you have been aspired, to allow our Creator to continue to shape,make and crown your finish! If you enjoyed this Topic, Join our Group and comment or rate below each Post. I enjoyed this Topic because a Ruby is rare to find in a world with plenty diamonds. God Bless you............

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